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    I don't know what to do.
    Basically i befriended this very sweet girl at the start of uni and quickly assumed that i would be living with her. The other 2 girls i'm supposed to be living with are nice, but i don't know them that well, and their choice of accommodation isn't what i expected.
    I get on great with my hall mates and i would really love to live with them, only i'm worried about having too much fun and falling behind with uni work in my second year!

    To top it off i've been treating this week like it was freshers, as everyone has asked me to go out etc and i've made plans with this girl when i realised that i'd double booked myself.
    She sent me a message on facebook saying that she 'isn't angry' but annoyed that i've done this to her twice now and it isn't fair. I completely agree. It's just my stupidity (and lack of sleep through being ill, though not alcohol related) but then she did have to cancel stuff through her drama production, but of course, a much better excuse.
    Thing is, i don't want to tell her that i don't want to live with her. This is all such a big mess, and i do want to live with her, but then i don't...
    This is such a lovely person and a loyal friend, i feel like i can't do it but i will be unhappy if i continue with this.
    Sorry for being so long, does anyone have any advice?
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    Man up doesn't seem like enough for this one... Erm... Nope, nothing.
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    woman up
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    strap on a pair
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    i dont get it...why wudnt u want to live with this girl again?
 
 
 
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