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theres this guy

and we had a moment at my mates b/day in june and i haven't seen him since, he told my friend he really liked me even though things didn;t go to plan i was in load of pain because i didn;t know it at the time but i hd a miscarraige a few days later (from my ex boyf) and i think he was abit offended i wasn;t up for much in the end because it hurt so much but he wanted to hug me and when i woke up, he was still there now i went to my mate last week and i didnt see him but we talked about him and i really wanna see him again, he liked me and the fact he didn't see him for ages he has moved on, the last thing i wanna do is annoy anybody, but i really feel i need to see him what if i miss my chance all he wants is to be loved, and i think i am good for him and he is good for me.



do u think i should explain what was going on at the time (he is the only person who treated me with respect esp in that situation as i was upset as well because i had a row with my mates mum)

im confused ive not thought about anyone else like this in ages!
i don't know what to do, do i go find him and tell him or just get over it!!

sorry about my spellings and stuff im abit dylexic
Reply 1
Laursy
and we had a moment at my mates b/day in june and i haven't seen him since, he told my friend he really liked me even though things didn;t go to plan i was in load of pain because i didn;t know it at the time but i hd a miscarraige a few days later (from my ex boyf) and i think he was abit offended i wasn;t up for much in the end because it hurt so much but he wanted to hug me and when i woke up, he was still there now i went to my mate last week and i didnt see him but we talked about him and i really wanna see him again, he liked me and the fact he didn't see him for ages he has moved on, the last thing i wanna do is annoy anybody, but i really feel i need to see him what if i miss my chance all he wants is to be loved, and i think i am good for him and he is good for me.



do u think i should explain what was going on at the time (he is the only person who treated me with respect esp in that situation as i was upset as well because i had a row with my mates mum)

im confused ive not thought about anyone else like this in ages!
i don't know what to do, do i go find him and tell him or just get over it!!

sorry about my spellings and stuff im abit dylexic

Get over it, i know its hard but he wont be the only guy whos that nice,
plus put yourself in his new partners shoes.
How would you feel if you was happy with someone then some girl from the past comes along and seems to be interfering???
Wouldnt be very nice would it?
good luck thoe
Reply 2
yer you are right but theres nio harm in being mates with him i have been friends with old flames in the past and they have had new girlfriends ive had to give up so many nice guys to other girls, its ok though they are always really lovley girls, if they are happy then so am i.

theres no point in unessasary upset is there really if i see him round then ill chat to him,
none of my boyf have been that nice (they were all horrid)