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    hi, i'm looking for some advice...

    i have a girlfriend who i've been going out with for about 10 months now. unfortunately our relationship seems to have gotten a kinda dull, like when we go out now we seem to not have much to say to each other. we don't stay out for very long, we never seem to have anything to talk about. we spoke about this last night, and she said she worried that maybe it was only meant to be for 6 months or something. she sent me a text this morning saying she loves me but we need to talk about our relationship some more.

    another reason she's been worried about our relationship is that i'm never organising things with her, always waiting for her to. and another reason i'm worried is that she seems to not be very affectionate towards me, and not interested in sex anymore. i think when one of us senses the other is worried it just makes us feel worse.

    the thing is, i still love her, and she's pretty much the only person outside my family i have left. i basically have no friends now, and she's the only person i see. if i lose her i am going to become really really depressed.

    does anyone have any advice? i'm going to become more proactive in organising things with her, but i don't think that will solve everything...
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    This is exactly what happened to my relationship! I wanted to work it out, but he ended it.
    Can I ask - why do you not organise anything with her anymore if you still love her?
    if you did more things together surely you'd have more to talk about? x
 
 
 
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