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    at a club last night, my housemate introduced me to one of his friends and we got chatting then got mega drunk and then kissed a bit and then went our separate ways at the end of the night.

    day after he texted me asking if i wanted to 'hang out' one-on-one, which is fair enough to ask but i asked one of my (girl) friends how i should reply non-rudely but saying no thank you. and she said i had lead him on? =/ (i'm miffed she said that )

    i thought that drunkenly kissing another drunk partier was just a 'for fun' thing not a 'take me i'm yours' thing did i lead him on?

    guys does he feel i lead him on? when you kiss a girl in a club and you're both pretty smashed is that just for fun to you?
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    Go and see him or you will be leading the guy on
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    You did not lead him on.
    You don't really expect to find your next relationship drunkenly clubbing.
    As long as you make it clear that you don't want to be with him like that, then it should be fine.
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    You didn't lead him on. Your friend is dramatic. The lad will probably be a bit put out but he's not going to be upset and betrayed.
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    What he said is pretty standard as far as I'm aware. Treat it as you like, I wouldn't be majorly disappointed if I was rejected in that way. I would be a bit peeved for a while but I would understand.
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    I'll tell you my story dude.

    I was working for a woman.. as a part time babysitter for xmas last year. she had a son. ( well babysitting the yungah ones) so the elder one, he is 3 years youngah than me. one night i saw him in a pub.
    he left his friends to come with me. we were drunk, then we kissed.

    & out of nowhere, i started to like him.. we started dating! SO MUCH IN LOVE. trust me. we wudnt have imagined that.

    but there's an end to everything. i have to go away for my studies. so we're breaking up tomorrow because im leaving on monday.

    THIS IS SO HARD. i feel a lump in my throat everytime i think abt tht.
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    you didn't purposely lead him on, you were drunk. don't worry about it.
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    (Original post by Aj12)
    Go and see him or you will be leading the guy on
    Surely she'd be leading him on if she went and saw him, considering she wants to say no?
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    The guy sounds like a sap
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    I wouldn't worry about it.
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    Did you balls lead him on. Your friend needs to sort out her definition of 'leading on'.
 
 
 
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