long story short
I meet this girl, we get along amazingly well, like scarily well.
We dated and were together for 6 months and I should emphasize that some might say it's not that long but we communicated a lot, not just in duration but depth.
We only had to end things because her parents hate me and gave her the option of him or them. reason being we are of opposing religions and both our parents are very religious (roman catholic and islam)
She is very close to her family and could never leave them even if they are giving me no chance and hating me because I was born different.
Now, I've moved on to a degree in that it's not affecting my day-to-day life, my work is fine, etc ..
I just tend to spend nights awake, wondering what could have been and I get the sense that I can never be truly happy without her? that no girl would ever match her? and on the other side, what girl would love me? she was the first person that loved me for me, I have a lot of 'foibles' and people find it hard to relate to me, and I always end up friend-zoned etc ..
Does it ever go away? I mean the sense of, what your live could have been like? BTW it's been about 2 months since we had to end things if you were wondering.
moving on from 'the one' ? Watch
- Thread Starter
- 12-12-2010 06:05
- 12-12-2010 06:20
I remember being in a similar situation when I broke up with my first proper girlfriend. I loved her to bits and when she dumped me it ruined me. But time does make it better man, and you'll realise that there are so many people out there that are just as good as her in their own way.
Your mind will move on and so will your heart. Just use this experience to help yourself grow as a person and realise that this will happen even more in the future.
Give it a few years and a couple of spent relationships, and this girl will be just another memory you can look back fondly upon
- 12-12-2010 09:44
time should take care of it.