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    My ex ended our relationship just last weekend but still tries to contact me saying she's sad because of one reason or another or something... What is she trying to do?

    Saying I clearly never loved her because I am not caring or replying to her?

    When it was her that threw me out, her that didn't want to talk things through. To be fair it all seems to be about her?

    Why is she trying to make contact, it's only going to make things harder? I don't understand?

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    Well this sounds a bit confusing...
    She could be trying to make contact just so you two can clear things up and make friends. Maybe shes realised shes hurt you and wants to apologise.
    On the other hand it may be that she wants to get back with you.
    Or even that she is angry at you for something.
    We only have one side of the story.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    My ex ended our relationship just last weekend but still tries to contact me saying she's sad because of one reason or another or something... What is she trying to do?

    Saying I clearly never loved her because I am not caring or replying to her?

    When it was her that threw me out, her that didn't want to talk things through. To be fair it all seems to be about her?

    Why is she trying to make contact, it's only going to make things harder? I don't understand?

    Thanks
    Omg. It's pretty similar with my ex. Like it's all about. Ended it two days ago which she was happy about and still won't stop texting me
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    My ex ended our relationship just last weekend but still tries to contact me saying she's sad because of one reason or another or something... What is she trying to do?

    Saying I clearly never loved her because I am not caring or replying to her?

    When it was her that threw me out, her that didn't want to talk things through. To be fair it all seems to be about her?

    Why is she trying to make contact, it's only going to make things harder? I don't understand?

    Thanks
    Omg. It's pretty similar with my ex. Like it's all about. Ended it two days ago which she was happy about and still won't stop texting me
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    If she ended it, block her out!
    She has no right to keep on calling or texting you, unless you guys agreed you would remain "friends" in which case, you still some space before that can happen and even after that it's awkward.
    I don't get why people try and seem as if nothings happened after they basically ruined your life!
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    (Original post by dmz)
    Omg. It's pretty similar with my ex. Like it's all about. Ended it two days ago which she was happy about and still won't stop texting me
    if I'm unhappy about something I'm being depressing tho i listen to her constant moaning without complain. It's such a massive headache
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    If she ended it, block her out!
    She has no right to keep on calling or texting you, unless you guys agreed you would remain "friends" in which case, you still some space before that can happen and even after that it's awkward.
    I don't get why people try and seem as if nothings happened after they basically ruined your life!
    broke up many times before but rarely lasts a day. Told her i don't wanna be friends cos I'll only hate her. I just don't wanna get back again
 
 
 
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