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Does it soundlike he has a gf?

Theres this really nice guy who i kinda started getting to know really through my friend who introduced us. I'd seen him around beforenbut he is a pretty popular dude and as i'm not as popular i never had bothered with him before. Anyway he is really nice and we get on.

It ended up that we started talking on msn too and he asked for my number and we text a lot. I kinda like him and i dunno what to do!

I have "heard" he has a gf though and i dunno what to interpret his behaviour as.

Reply 1

I would say that you should try and find out if he has, but don't ask him directly because he will get all defensive and your friendship might take a downturn. You'll have to trust that he doesnt have a girlfriend, and if he does then you'll know not to go out with him if hes like that.

ollie :biggrin:

Reply 2

From what youve said it sounds like he likes you. Maybe he is just dating the other girl? But, yeah, you need to find out if he does have a g/f and how serious they are.

Ask one of your friends and dont be intimidated by his being popular!

Reply 3

Amlea:

These threads you make....are you always talking about the same guy? Or a different one each time?

I'm not being mean, honestly, but you make a new thread along the lines of, "There's this guy...............................do you think he...............................?" at least once a week.

Reply 4

Its a different guy..you see the other guy is soooooo confusing i have kinda gave up on him..theres only ever been like two at the most....BUT this one i have got to know these past few weeks and didn't realise i kinda liked til a few days ago!

Reply 5

Two guys? But probably about 20 threads. Why don't you just have one thread? Then we can check for updates. :wink:

Reply 6

susiemakemeblue
Two guys? But probably about 20 threads. Why don't you just have one thread? Then we can check for updates. :wink:


:hahaha:

Reply 7

lol very funny..but seriously though this new guy was totally unexpected! I mean i thought he ws bein friendly but well i dunno...

Reply 8

Here's a thought, Amlea. Maybe you just read too much into everything. A lot of your posts have been along the lines of, "We sat near each other today and he looked at me! Do you think he likes me?"

He might well like you, but no one on here can tell you whether that's the case. My advice for you for ALL of these threads is this: don't talk to us, talk to him. Smile, start a conversation, chat to him. Get to know him, become his friend. If he likes you, something will probably happen. If he doesn't like you in that way, at least you've made yourself a new friend. And he might have fit friends. :wink:

Reply 9

Amlea
lol very funny..but seriously though this new guy was totally unexpected! I mean i thought he ws bein friendly but well i dunno...

dont worry about it.
loads of us have two or three guys on our mind at once when we are just looking.
sounds like he does like you but i can say whether he has a girlfriend or not, your the only one who can figure out.
if he did, do you think she would behappy with him texting you all this time?
i think not! :p:

Reply 10

lol TRUE....i am the worst...i DO read into things too much...

Its just i don't get guys!!

And its like i figure one out and then another comes out of nowhere!

Reply 11

Amlea
Theres this really nice guy who i kinda started getting to know really through my friend who introduced us. I'd seen him around beforenbut he is a pretty popular dude and as i'm not as popular i never had bothered with him before. Anyway he is really nice and we get on.

It ended up that we started talking on msn too and he asked for my number and we text a lot. I kinda like him and i dunno what to do!

I have "heard" he has a gf though and i dunno what to interpret his behaviour as.

Sounds like abir of a player to me