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    Basically I have come to the conclusion that I'm a really bad person. I feel completely at a loss because i try so hard to be nice to people, not to judge people etc... and most of that stuff i'm actually really good at. But literally... ever relationship i've been in i end up cheating on the guy. I end up really hurting them. My friends mean the world to me but for some reason i manage to **** up all my friendships by hurting them. I'm a really forgiving person if anyone does something to me... but i don't know how to stop this. I constantly end up drunkenly getting with the guy my friend likes or my friends ex or something and we fall out about it and i lie to get out of it. I feel like i'm not but maybe i'm just a **** friend and a horrible person. I never mean to hurt anyone at all, it's entirely my own fault but stuff just happens to me.
    I really need help with this because it's ruining my life.. please don't be harsh about it. I know i'm in the wrong, it's not gonna help to have loads of people ranting about how bad i am....
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    (Original post by LiquidExtreme12)
    It's the drink. Stop drinking!
    this. stop drinking and apologise to your friends theyll understand!
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    well, at least you've identified this. maybe you'll go on to be a better person now....??

    everyone has low days. i laugh at racist jokes, i take the piss out of EVERYTHING, even things i really shouldn't. i'm nice to people to their faces and horrid behind their back.

    point is- we can all be nasty. we can all be nice. you don't sound like a nasty person. not at all. everyone makes mistakes.

    you'll probably feel better in the morning. =)
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    Become German.

    But seriously, as mentioned above, stop drinking(excessively)
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    Join a convent.
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    People never change. You will forever be like you are now. All you can do is warn people before you hurt them.
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    I smile and wait for the consequences.
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    Terrible people are people who don't pretend to not be terrible.
    Terrible people are the honest people.
    Therefore the world is broken.
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    Whatever Darth Vader
 
 
 
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