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    I lives with one of my best guy friend in a house with 4 other friends when I am at uni. And at the end of this term, we ended up sleeping with each other- just hugging- for three night. Then, he fingered on the third night. And here is the thing, I have never been in a relationship or even had my first kiss, and I was fingered by my best guy friend? I am so confused at the moment...Surely things should go in the right order? I really can't tell if he likes me or not- we hardly talked after that night since it's the end of term and we are both leaving the house. He didn't make an effort to try to spend time with me that's for sure. So are we just friends now? What the hell is going on between us? Looking back now, he did tell me that he likes me. But he said it in such a jokey way that I have never taken it into heart. Should I confront him at some point so that I can get this out of my mind? Surely if he likes me and wants to go out with me he would actually kiss me? Any constructive advice would be appreciated!
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    :/ i have no words..
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    Just ask him what the hell is going on!! lol yes confront him! right now!x
    Good Luck
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    Why would he stick his fingers in a dark damp hole if he did't like it?
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    Well, friends don't really finger each other. So maybe not. :unsure:

    But ask him anyway.
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    Thats weird.

    Almost surreal..psychedelic even.
 
 
 
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