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    Hello,
    I have been seeing this guy at my college and he is really good to me. He recently asked me to be exclusive and not hook up with other people and that he would do that same. He also explained he likes me so much that over winter break he wants me to meet his family. However, recently he has been acting sketchy. On friday he had a party but didnt invite me and on Saturday at the bar he completely ignored me for half the night and then the rest of the night was inseparable from me and acted like i was his girlfriend. i have not gotten any text from him today or Saturday. He knew that tonight was our last night to hang out at night before going home for winter break, we leave in different towns. Why haven't he texted me and why was he acting like such a sketch at the bar? Please help I am really confused and like him alot but not if he is going to treat me this way! is he playing games or is something up?? Thanks
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    He wasn't obliged to invite you to his party. Maybe it was with a specific group of people - like a sports team or something - and he thought you might have felt left out? And you need to realise that Christmas break will mean a break from everyone, not just you, so maybe he wanted to spend time with his friends before you all part ways for however many weeks. You can hardly complain - you did say that he spent half the night glued to you, so he's hardly ignoring you, is he? Make the next move, and if he doesn't respond, it's his loss.
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    (Original post by collegegirl21)
    Hello,
    I have been seeing this guy at my college and he is really good to me. He recently asked me to be exclusive and not hook up with other people and that he would do that same. He also explained he likes me so much that over winter break he wants me to meet his family. However, recently he has been acting sketchy. On friday he had a party but didnt invite me and on Saturday at the bar he completely ignored me for half the night and then the rest of the night was inseparable from me and acted like i was his girlfriend. i have not gotten any text from him today or Saturday. He knew that tonight was our last night to hang out at night before going home for winter break, we leave in different towns. Why haven't he texted me and why was he acting like such a sketch at the bar? Please help I am really confused and like him alot but not if he is going to treat me this way! is he playing games or is something up?? Thanks
    Use paragraphs; it makes it easier to read.

    But it sounds like you're being a typical girl and overreacting to nothing.
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    (Original post by hagrid's big toe)
    Probably fancies the tits off you.

    If he's a shy guy generally, then this is probably the case.
    why is your screen name hagrids big toe? ive never laughed so hard in my life.... and thanks for the advice the guy is meeting up with me tonight and i am going to ask what is going on. i dont want to be used obviously and being upset isnt good either.

    thanks guys
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    What is up with girls and texting?
 
 
 
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