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    Explain why you become distant with someone. It could be someone you like or dislike but why do you do it?

    Do you ever do it if you think someone likes youyou like someone? What reasons?
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    I've always done it with guys I find attractive because I don't want them to think I find them attractive :rolleyes: also do it with guys I get like-vibes off because I don't wanna give them the wrong idea and have the awkward turning them down thing (urgh I sound like a *****, as if I'm fighting them off, I'm not lol). And up until recently I'd do it with a guy I liked (usually a mutual likey situation) because I guess I thought they'd get bored of me if they got too close. But now I'm realising it feels much nicer to just relax
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    I've become distant with most boyfriends, and i'm not completely sure why. I think alot of people do it because they think they might get hurt? Not saying you would just that most people use it as a protective mechanism
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    They buy you socks for your birthday.
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    Because we go down different paths, wther it be mentality wise, moving away or we just have different things in common. I'm distant from a lot of people now because they either bore me or they have done something to me and our friendship that i refuse to aprove of, therefore i moved on.
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    Basically when they no longer deserve my time & effort... eg. lying to my face, going behind my back, not making the effort the back etc.
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    (Original post by Hey TSR)
    Explain why you become distant with someone. It could be someone you like or dislike but why do you do it?

    Do you ever do it if you think someone likes youyou like someone? What reasons?
    we were really good friends for 4 years then i asked her out..... we grew apart after that. thankfully i bumped into her 2 months ago and now good friends again.
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    I don't want them to think i'm keener than i am/i realise they're a ****.
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    When there is incoming attraction from someone you don't like , and you have to stop them thinking that they are close and have a chance.
 
 
 
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