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    What's your personal opinion on sex outside marriage even though your religion regards it as a sin? Have you had sex outside marriage but still firmly believe in Catholicism(or other denominations of Christianity)/Islam/any other religion that says sex is for marriage.
    When I was confirmed (into Catholicism) I was taught that it's an absolute sin. But do people really stick to this? I'm confused. :/
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      What's your personal opinion on sex outside marriage even though your religion regards it as a sin? Have you had sex outside marriage but still firmly believe in Catholicism(or other denominations of Christianity)/Islam/any other religion that says sex is for marriage.
      When I was confirmed (into Catholicism) I was taught that it's an absolute sin. But do people really stick to this? I'm confused. :/
      I'm a Christian, used to be a Baptist but I fell out with them when I realized that it was all put on. I still believe, probably more now than ever before. I've considered, at various points, becoming a Catholic, and an Anglican.

      For me, sex is the ultimate consummation of love, the last binding seal between a man and a woman. So I'd say it's something of a holy act. But I wouldn't say that marriage is necessarily a requirement; I'd be willing to have sex with <insert hypothetical girlfriend here> if we had both come to truly love each other, and if we intended to get married. In other words, if we wanted God to see us as a couple. But I'd also say that giving pleasure doesn't necessarily require the sex act itself to be performed, so I'd be happy to do other things with her (or for/to her; the biggest turn on to me is the idea of giving a girl pleasure).
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      Im religious and have turned down sex/gfs before although im kind of goin through a period where if a hot girl made advances i might not be able to refrain. It helps that i dont drink cos thats 80% of the problem I think. If you drink then its gonna be more likely your gona get laid
     
     
     
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