A love triangle
I met this girl a few months ago through her (EX)boyfriend. although me and her boyfriend weren't close, we've become mates since September. about halfway through October they broke up. Every night since then I've been talking to her on msn or texting her, We've even started calling each other up in the mornings to wake the other up. I like her a lot, but I'm not sure if I should ask her out as she might not like me back or her ex might hate me. even though we've become really good mates and I hang out with his group every weekend ( also everyone at my school thinks were going out and apparantly someone at her school asked her if we are)
Shall i risk the friendship with the guy?
Any advice would help!
A love triangle watch
- Thread Starter
- 14-12-2010 18:37
- 14-12-2010 18:53
Turn that triangle into a circle and everyone's happy.
- 14-12-2010 18:58
If everyone at your school thinks you are going out with this girl, I presume her ex would have heard about it too and I also presume he would have tried to talk about it with you if he was really bothered.
That being said, it might be best to pull him aside anyway and let him know the situation. If he doesn't seem bothered then, go for it.
- 14-12-2010 20:12
You'll never find out if you don't try, and you wouldn't want to regret that in future. I don't think there's much question about whether she likes you or not if you've been speaking every night and phoning each other in the morning. Talk to him about it, he might not even care. If he does, then you really need to decide who means most to you.