i finished a job a couple of weeks ago, it was only a couple of days a week and wasn't for more than a month.
since finishing i can't stop thinking about a girl who works there. while there we did chat, small talk etc etc.
it was only until the last day that we got into more of a conversation.
so i know what her favourite band is i was going to send her a little gift of the band (haven't decided what yet, it would just be a silly little thing, like a mug)
So I dont know whether i should do it, it sounds pretty harmless to me as just an acknowledgement but of course i have a nagging feeling the reaction would be "uuuuhhhhh stalker!!"
am I missing a pair of testicles?
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- Thread Starter
- 14-12-2010 21:17
- 14-12-2010 21:49
I think if you're getting good vibes from her and you get on then she would find it really sweet! It is lovely to know that a guy has listened to your interests so would be a great first impression if you'd like to see her again and things. Buttttt, if you don't know eachother that well it may be a bit too soon for gestures like that if it's not her birthday or anything? Maybe go into the shop first and ask for her number, chat a bit more....if that goes well get her the mug or whatever for xmas...it's only 2 weeks away!
- 14-12-2010 21:54
Go for it man, you never know until you try! Do you really want to end up regretting not doing anything :P Whats the worst that could happen really?!
- 14-12-2010 21:59
Yeah this is definitely what u should do! Good luck dude
- Thread Starter
- 14-12-2010 22:34
thanks for the replies!!(Original post by happy :))
Buttttt, if you don't know eachother that well it may be a bit too soon for gestures like that if it's not her birthday or anything?
- 14-12-2010 22:46
Maybe ask her out for a coffee or something? If she says yes, that means she's interested..use the gift idea for an "early xmas present". If she says no or gives you a bad response then you know that your sweet gestures would be wasted on her
- 14-12-2010 23:10
i'll see if i grow a pair in time.