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    Okkkkkkk.
    i finished a job a couple of weeks ago, it was only a couple of days a week and wasn't for more than a month.
    since finishing i can't stop thinking about a girl who works there. while there we did chat, small talk etc etc.

    it was only until the last day that we got into more of a conversation.

    so i know what her favourite band is i was going to send her a little gift of the band (haven't decided what yet, it would just be a silly little thing, like a mug)

    So I dont know whether i should do it, it sounds pretty harmless to me as just an acknowledgement but of course i have a nagging feeling the reaction would be "uuuuhhhhh stalker!!"

    am I missing a pair of testicles?

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    I think if you're getting good vibes from her and you get on then she would find it really sweet! It is lovely to know that a guy has listened to your interests so would be a great first impression if you'd like to see her again and things. Buttttt, if you don't know eachother that well it may be a bit too soon for gestures like that if it's not her birthday or anything? Maybe go into the shop first and ask for her number, chat a bit more....if that goes well get her the mug or whatever for xmas...it's only 2 weeks away!
    Good luck
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    Go for it man, you never know until you try! Do you really want to end up regretting not doing anything :P Whats the worst that could happen really?!
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    (Original post by benjical)
    Go for it man, you never know until you try! Do you really want to end up regretting not doing anything :P Whats the worst that could happen really?!
    I like ur attitude
    Yeah this is definitely what u should do! Good luck dude
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    thanks for the replies!!

    (Original post by happy :))
    Buttttt, if you don't know eachother that well it may be a bit too soon for gestures like that if it's not her birthday or anything?
    thats exactly what i thought and why im reluctant, i had some emails with her after id left and it was a bit lukewarm if im honest. im only really givin it a proper thought because ill never see her again. tragic really!

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    Go for it man, you never know until you try! Do you really want to end up regretting not doing anything :P Whats the worst that could happen really?!
    look realllllly desperate and stalkerish is the worst i can think of! at the moment anyway.
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    Maybe ask her out for a coffee or something? If she says yes, that means she's interested..use the gift idea for an "early xmas present". If she says no or gives you a bad response then you know that your sweet gestures would be wasted on her
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    happy.....................thank you.

    i'll see if i grow a pair in time.
 
 
 
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