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Slept with my mates mum

Normally the stuff of fantasies but I'm confused big time now. I went round to see if he had returned from football, he hadn't, yet i got invited in. She was wearing just a dressing gown which should perhaps have set alarm bells ringing but it didn't. To spare the details, before i knew it we were at it and although it was good i feel so guilty now and am avoiding my mate like the plague. I don't suppose he'll twig but there are so many mixed emotions right now such as should i come clean, or act as if nothings happened. Advice please?

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Reply 1
DLD4o
Normally the stuff of fantasies but I'm confused big time now. I went round to see if he had returned from football, he hadn't, yet i got invited in. She was wearing just a dressing gown which should perhaps have set alarm bells ringing but it didn't. To spare the details, before i knew it we were at it and although it was good i feel so guilty now and am avoiding my mate like the plague. I don't suppose he'll twig but there are so many mixed emotions right now such as should i come clean, or act as if nothings happened. Advice please?


Mate. How old are you and how old is she?
Reply 2
Im 2nd yr uni, she's maybe 40, but really hot.
Reply 3
I'm going to puke now... This is as bad as Jerry Springer and your "friend's" mother sounds like a whore.
I'm going to take some Pepto Bismol. Honestly, you disgust me.

Edit: Come clean, and shower 10 times please.
Reply 4
Got milf?
Reply 5
DLD4o
Im 2nd yr uni, she's maybe 40, but really hot.


And has this totally come out of the blue? or did you know she fancied you, did you fancy her?
Reply 6
visesh
Got milf?


haha

Seriously though, this is the first thread in which I am actually offended with its content and now I actually disrespect someone on TSR...
Reply 7
Wow!! Milf eh!
Reply 8
SlyPie
I'm going to puke now... This is as bad as Jerry Springer and your "friend's" mother sounds like a whore.
I'm going to take some Pepto Bismol. Honestly, you disgust me.

Edit: Come clean, and shower 10 times please.


Dude, shut up. She's a whore cos she had sex?
You are a legend. Write a book about it. Sell the screenplay. Become a worldwide celebrity.
Reply 10
segat1
Dude, shut up. She's a whore cos she had sex?


With her son's friend. Yes. This is just wrong in many respects, not simply because she does not respect her son and knew that it would potentially harm him (her son). And I'm a girl; not a dude.
Reply 11
SlyPie
With her son's friend. Yes. This is just wrong in many respects, not simply because she does not respect her son and knew that it would potentially harm him. And I'm a girl; not a dude.


Sorry, I call everyone dude.

And he's not to blame then? Its totally her fault?
Reply 12
Maybe there were feelings? After all he's hardly a kid if he's 20 or so.
Reply 13
segat1
Sorry, I call everyone dude.

And he's not to blame then? Its totally her fault?


No, I told him that he was disgusting in my first post...

They're both to blame and I have no respect for either.
Reply 14
Coming clean could only make things worse.

SlyPie
I have no respect for either.


Oh noes.
Reply 15
fluffball
Maybe there were feelings? After all he's hardly a kid if he's 20 or so.


I'm 19 and even if I were to fancy an older man who was middle-aged, I would not overlook a friendship and sleep with a friend's parent. That's just wrong on too many levels.
Reply 16
SlyPie
No, I told him that he was disgusting in my first post...

They're both to blame and I have no respect for either.


Sorry, missed that. Ok, but he is asking what he should do. People make mistakes!
Reply 17
Mr. Fox
Coming clean could only make things worse.



Oh noes.
well, coming clean => little chance of spreading diseases.
Reply 18
It goes to show to me that this fella has crossed the line by sleepin wif his friend's mum...it wud be interesting to c what this fella wud if the situation was vice versa???
Reply 19
Mr. Fox
Coming clean could only make things worse.


But it's the right thing to do; both betrayed the friend/son. It's not about the consequences but about what is right.