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Girls: Do you ever not contact a guy to gauge if he is interested? watch

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    Do any of you ever refuse to contact a guy in an atttempt to find out whether he is interested in you or not?

    For instance, do you refuse to text/call first etc?
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    Everyone does this at some point.
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    Yes.
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    But with the girl in question it probably isn't the case. She probably just doesn't want to chat to me.
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    It would have probably made more sense to have the title as "Girls: Do you EVER contact a guy to gauge if he is interested?"
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    I don't contact him because I don't want bother him and come across as a cling,y repulsive freak.
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    haha it would be ironic if the guy would stop contacting the girl to see if shes still interested. AT the same time, the girl is doing this , then both would think the other person isnt interested at all lol
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I don't contact him because I don't want bother him and come across as a cling,y repulsive freak.
    This -__-
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    Yes, all the time. It is required that we have had some contact at first, meaning that I have shown him I am interested in some way already. If we haven't had any contact at all, I'm not likely to be the first one to call/text either, but I would be quicker to reply and be very friendly to make sure to show I'm interested.
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    (Original post by ilovethekooks)
    haha it would be ironic if the guy would stop contacting the girl to see if shes still interested. AT the same time, the girl is doing this , then both would think the other person isnt interested at all lol
    My thoughts exactly!!

    I have done it before. I think most people have!

    I try not to now, If you want to text someone, you should just text them Just don't overdo it, no one wants to be annoying :p:
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    Guys tend to lose interest and move on very quickly, so a lot of the time it's a pretty crappy strategy if you're genuinely interested in someone. Then again, it would show you that they're probably not worth it.
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    If i spoke to certain people as much as i really want to, i'd be texting them every single day. I have no choice but to hold back and see if they talk to me themselves!
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    Yeah of course, all girls do.
 
 
 
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