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    Heres the problem
    my friend liked this girl but she was treating him really badly...she told him she liked him back but then gets back with ehr ex two days later
    she was also my friend
    im quite friendly with him.....one day he takes me out for lunch and my friend finds out....stops talking to me..... so i ask her whats wrong and she lies and says nothing...then i find out shes been *****ing about me to the rrest of our friends
    so we have an argument and i tell her i had no intention of getting with him

    now were not talking
    and i find myself falling for him
    he seems really sweet to me...hes defended me loads when shes been ****ging me off and hes not talking to her either
    what should i do? get with him and the rest of my friends say wth or should i just allow?
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    Sisters before Misters.
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    Meh - your friend sounds like a douche and if you like the guy, go for it. Are the rest of your mates really gonna ditch you over that? If yeah, they're probably not worth having but that said, a bird that choices a bloke over her friends is not a cool one....but if this guy was seeing your mate and is now saying bad things about her because he's seeing you...maybe he's just trying to get back at her? Sounds like a bit of a playaaa.
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    get with him lol, you wont get ur friend back anyway, shes not that nice, so yea,get with him and piss her off
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    She got back with her ex. She can't have her cake and eat it :no:. She can't see her ex and expect this guy to wait for her to be single again. She is either with her ex, or she needs to stop playing you all and decide what she wants. I'd say, if he's interested in you, then go for it. If your friend is being a ***** about it, just remind her that she has a bf now, and if she cares that much about who he is seeing, why did she get back with this other guy?
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    Get with him!
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    Follow your heart, not your head

    Don't get with him to piss anyone off, just do it because you want to.

    friends don't back-stab, so why do you call her your friend?

    good luck xx
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    (Original post by KaramelRose)
    Sisters before Misters.
    She'll be a rubbish sister lol
    K that sounds harsh but its true....shes backstabbed me so many times =/ xxxxxxxxxx
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    (Original post by SpiritedAway)
    She got back with her ex. She can't have her cake and eat it :no:. She can't see her ex and expect this guy to wait for her to be single again. She is either with her ex, or she needs to stop playing you all and decide what she wants. I'd say, if he's interested in you, then go for it. If your friend is being a ***** about it, just remind her that she has a bf now, and if she cares that much about who he is seeing, why did she get back with this other guy?
    I know thank you! I think the reason shes annoyed is because he's not chasing her any more and hes fed up of her little games
    I havent seen him all week and my phones broke...I really miss him lool =/
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