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    I always have fb chats with one of my guy friends and it starts normal but then always turns into some massive long innuendo between us, whilst of course it isn't serious and we just make loads of puns, but he has a girlfriend (who i know and am also good friends with) we're not attracted to each other at all it's just a joke thing... though sometimes i wonder if it's out of line?

    would it upset you?
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    It wouldn't upset me if I never knew. His girlfriend doesn't know.... Have fun convos
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    PM me and let's have some fun. :sexface:
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    Its fine if you're not into him and he's not into you, innocent flirty fun.

    But... If I was his gf and I found out, I would NOT be happy.

    Maybe scale it back a tad?
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    I do this with guys in general haha. But then I found out that most of the single guys I did it with ended up fancying me I try to avoid flirting with guys in relationships if I can. Things end up messy if I don't

    I know it's hard to pull it back, but maybe just tread carefully? You might not like him, but for all you know he might be misreading you if you are flirting a lot. The last thing you want is to get into the situation where you are having to explain why you were flirting to your best friend.

    I think that joking/flirting is one thing but maybe innuendo is another? I wouldn't be happy if I found out my boyfriend was flirting in that way with another girl, especially if it was one girl in particular. But at the same time, joking with him is no crime. Just, like I said, be careful that the signals you're giving aren't being misconstrued.
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    I had/have a friendship with a girl that almost entirely consists of innuendos. She used to have a boyfriend who HATED me with a passion. But that was only cus he was jealous
    Me and her would wink, blow kisses and laugh so hard at pretending to grab each other. Some people told me maybe I should stop, but I didn't, and nothing happened. To be honest, there's still a lot of sexual tension between us and always has been. But nothing will happen and we're still best mates. So I say just carry on. You're mates, and it's just a unique friendship. I hate people who act different when they have boyfriends/girlfriends (which is everyone really)
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    I had a relationship like this with a guy...still do to an extent. His girlfriend really hated the way we were with eachother and I was even accused of cheating at one point - but it was nothing but flirtation.

    We used to have conversations like that that would just turn into one big innuendo and it was fun (though I'm sure his girlfriend wouldn't see it that way). He would sometimes ask to meet me late at night(lol), but just in case he was proposing what I thought, I didn't go there. We still have a flirtatious relationship, but it's died down a good bit...I love the sexual tension though, and I think it will always be there as long as it never acted upon!
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I had a relationship like this with a guy...still do to an extent. His girlfriend really hated the way we were with eachother and I was even accused of cheating at one point - but it was nothing but flirtation.

    We used to have conversations like that that would just turn into one big innuendo and it was fun (though I'm sure his girlfriend wouldn't see it that way). He would sometimes ask to meet me late at night(lol), but just in case he was proposing what I thought, I didn't go there. We still have a flirtatious relationship, but it's died down a good bit... I love the sexual tension though, and I think it will always be there as long as it never acted upon!
    See, all of that would make me want to go around to yours and ***** slap you, if I were in his girlfriend's shoes.

    It's really not on. It's not fair. And the one time I've actually had anything like that happen to me I totally hit the roof.
 
 
 
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