Stomach churning

Ive officially decided that unless a girl makes your stomach churn when you think about them, the relationship will never work. Like there's this one girl ive got talking to recently....she's soooo fit, and we kinda got on really well...but she has a boyfriend(although she got off with someone else the other night). I wish it was easy to just tell the person how you feel....but its a male pride thing..don't wanna get rejected. Although if you never try then you'll never know....but grr. There's been thousands of posts like this Im sure..its just the cliché muthaf*cking im in love bizniss. Wrecks your head! :frown:

anyone else in this situation that can symphathise with me would be lovely. Furthermore, someone who's @ manchester that I can meet for coffee to drown sorrows with would be cool. :frown:

Reply 1

girl_in_keele

Oh wow, you're so sweet. Wish I felt like that about someone again... Enjoy the feeling while it lasts, may be unbearable now but I'm so envious of you...

love you! :tongue:

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Oh yeah, if you ever happen to be in Warrington I'll take you for a coffee lol! Not quite Manchester but close enough :biggrin:

Reply 2

asgardrune

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Tim Kabel

she has a boyfriend(although she got off with someone else the other night)

doesn't sound like a good person to fall in love with...things like that always made the feeling i had dissappear quite quickly
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girl_in_keele

Oh wow, you're so sweet. Wish I felt like that about someone again... Enjoy the feeling while it lasts, may be unbearable now but I'm so envious of you...

love you! :tongue:

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Oh yeah, if you ever happen to be in Warrington I'll take you for a coffee lol! Not quite Manchester but close enough :biggrin:

well you can have my feeling...i'm fed up with it at the moment :p:

Reply 3

Juno

20

But that could mean they make you feel sick :s:

Reply 4

girl_in_keele

Oh yeah, she cheated on her fella... Tim, you cutie, she's not cool mate, she could do the same to you and that would be so nasty... Bet there must be other well brought up rich young ladies in Alderley Edge to eye up?...

Reply 5

Apricot Fairy

16

This is why I make a conscious effort not to fancy guys who have girlfriends. If they're faithful to their girlfriend, you have no chance, so it's pointless. If they cheat on their girlfriend with you, they'll cheat on you with someone else, so it's asking for trouble. But if I meet someone I know I would want to be with if they were single, it's generally because I like them a lot, so I become good friends with them. Then if they split up with their girlfriend at some point in the future for a different reason, I can decide then whether I still like him.

I fancied my ex when I was 15. We became very good friends. When I was nearly 17 he split up with his girlfriend and I was his shoulder to cry on. Three weeks later we were together, and we stayed together for 18 months.

Just need to make sure it's not a rebound thing. :wink:

Reply 6

Tim Street

OP

Tbh I dont think its like that. I don't think that just because someone cheats makes them a lifelong unfaithful person, it surely depends on circumstances! For example - girl A is going out with boy A for 11 months. Girl A meets boy B, they get on so so so well, even better than she did with boy A, and theyre natural soulmates, but doesnt wana break up with boy A because she's too nice.. Oh i dont know...love is so confusing!

And yes lol, alderley edge may have girls galore but theyre not the same as this one girl from college..she's special.

Reply 7

emilyemily

I think you should tell her. Otherwise, you'll always wonder what could have happened.
And sorry, I'm not going up to Manchester for 8 weeks (I wish it was less!).

Reply 8

Tim Street

OP

lol well wen ya do, gimme a PM! and cheers for the advice. I'll tell her at the next drunken party.

Reply 9

asgardrune

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Tim Kabel

girl A is going out with boy A for 11 months. Girl A meets boy B, they get on so so so well, even better than she did with boy A, and theyre natural soulmates, but doesnt wana break up with boy A because she's too nice..

nice?......NICE???? :eek:

any boy/girl who would do that would be a *very bad words here*

"oh how nice of you...you cheat on me because he is better than me but you don't leave me...how lucky i am to have such a good cheating girlfriend like you"

*yuck* thats like sharing your girlfriend with your mates... :eek:

my experience is that once a person starts cheating they will continue doing it.

come on...you'll meet way better girls than that one...don't worry..even if you like her so much now, one day you'll be happy you didn't go for her but for a better and nicer girl...

Reply 10

emilyemily

I will do! And good luck!

Reply 11

Tim Street

OP

asgardrune

nice?......NICE???? :eek:

any boy/girl who would do that would be a *very bad words here*

"oh how nice of you...you cheat on me because he is better than me but you don't leave me...how lucky i am to have such a good cheating girlfriend like you"

*yuck* thats like sharing your girlfriend with your mates... :eek:

my experience is that once a person starts cheating they will continue doing it.

come on...you'll meet way better girls than that one...don't worry..even if you like her so much now, one day you'll be happy you didn't go for her but for a better and nicer girl...

yes but she can't help how she feels about people??

Reply 12

asgardrune

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Tim Kabel

yes but she can't help how she feels about people??

tim, if you had a relationship with a somebody, and you'd meet somebody else who you like more...you could do 3 things:

1. forget the nicer girl and stay with your girlfriend..after all you love her, otherwise there's no reason for a relationship.

2. break up with your girlfriend and start a relationship with the other girl...that would hurt your girlfriends feelings...but it isn't "weird" to do

3. cheat on your girlfriend while saying you still love her...that's...thats just really really bad...

the only 2 options are 1 and 2. the girl you like chose 3...
my advise it: don't get involved with her...you'll end up getting hurt which will make you feel at least 100 times worse than you feel now.
when it happened to me it made me throw up, i hated life, and it took a long time to get over it...a loooooooong time :frown:

Reply 13

Apricot Fairy

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Tim Kabel

Tbh I dont think its like that. I don't think that just because someone cheats makes them a lifelong unfaithful person, it surely depends on circumstances! For example - girl A is going out with boy A for 11 months. Girl A meets boy B, they get on so so so well, even better than she did with boy A, and theyre natural soulmates, but doesnt wana break up with boy A because she's too nice.. Oh i dont know...love is so confusing!

And yes lol, alderley edge may have girls galore but theyre not the same as this one girl from college..she's special.

No, if you're a decent person and you have a boyfriend and you meet someone else, you break up with the boyfriend. Then you give it a month or so (got to give him his dignity) and THEN you hook up with the other bloke. That's how nice girls do it.

Reply 14

MNBStyle

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Tim Kabel

Tbh I dont think its like that. I don't think that just because someone cheats makes them a lifelong unfaithful person, it surely depends on circumstances! For example - girl A is going out with boy A for 11 months. Girl A meets boy B, they get on so so so well, even better than she did with boy A, and theyre natural soulmates, but doesnt wana break up with boy A because she's too nice.. Oh i dont know...love is so confusing!

And yes lol, alderley edge may have girls galore but theyre not the same as this one girl from college..she's special.