(Original post by shinytoy)
naw dude thats fine. i know some hot
muscly dudes at my gym who are 22-24 and virgins. they are all muslim though.
im catholic and gonna be in my late twenties next year, dont believe in sex before marriage but at the same time have never had a bf who respected my beliefs long eough to have a proepr relationship. most dudes just wanna sleep about and dont value God or marriage. but now im nearly late twenties, looks like i might never meet anyone
better start f*king
This is that the problem a lot of women who are 'too picky' in their younger years have....as soon as they get into their late 20s/early 30s and beyond, their appeal to men rapidly diminishes. They then start getting desperate because men stop paying them as much attention.
Women have a much smaller time-frame in order to attract a man. And all the games women play in their late teens and early 20s don't work when they get into their 30s. 40s etc.
It's admirable that you have stuck to your own beliefs/morals regarding sex, but reality is, what has it gotten you? No men. No sex. And now you're at an age where you're starting to get desperate for male attention and sex, and in reality it's going to be harder to find a guy once you get over 30.
If you don't start having sex soon, your opportunities are going to diminish rapidly as you get into your 30s and beyond; you will no longer be the 'chooser', you will no longer have the choice you had in your early 20s.
Once a woman's looks start to fade, her opportunities for male attention will dry up.
That's why I cringe when women in their late teens to mid 20s are 'picky with men'...they think they will always have men chasing them, but really once they get past their prime, male attention will calm down and these women will be lonely and desperate middle aged women who will take any man who shows them attention. I've seen it all before...these younger women who are 'strong and independent' and 'don't need a man'....then they get a bit older and realise that they can no longer attract men as easily, and they get really desperate for male attention.
Men, on the other hand, get better and more attractive to women with age and therefore we don't have this problem.