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    I'm an 18 year old girl,otherwise healthy. I can pinpoint the time I started feeling worse - it was the week before exam results in the summer,so I've been like this for about 4-5 months now. But I think it's been an underlying problem since summer in 2009.

    I've just been feeling very deeply unhappy,although sometimes I don't feel anything at all. I've been finding it very hard to summon up the ability to care about anything - I hear people at school go on about their relationships and silly fights with friends and I just don't care at all,I can't see the point in getting involved in such things. It's so petty. I know it's selfish,but I'm so self absorbed in how I feel I can't get out of it! I don't have many friends at school and often isolate myself because I don't want to hear or deal with everyone else and their lives. I sound horrible but honestly I'm not! I'm pretty sure I have some form of Avoidant Personality Disorder,although it's more intense at different times.

    I can't remember the last time I genuinely felt moved by anything - I've lost interest in things I used to like,music,reading etc. I don't want to sleep,I don't want to be online,I don't want to go out or anything. There's next to nothing I want to do.

    The thing is that this couldn't have come at a worse time. I'm in my last year of school and I already have two offers from amazing universities in a highly competitive subject. Going to uni seems like the only way I could make myself feel slightly better (I'm convinced it's something to do with where I live) but now I'm worried this could interfere with my exams etc. Over the last term I've still been doing well but now exams are coming up I'm worried I could loose it again.

    I don't self harm as in cutting myself but when I feel stressed or anxious I often start scratching my head and picking at it (disgusting I know) which is obviously very painful. I'm just not sure if how I've been lately is enough to warrant some kind of medical attention? I'm just not sure.

    You should deffo see a doctor.I've been through a stage like yours.Try forcing yourself to go out and meet people.Try and find things to get hyped about, like seeing your family at Christmas.

    Get a pet like a cat it'll give you company,a purpose in life and pleasure to see it grow and learn!
    Don't give up, goodluck
    regards Tom
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