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    asian parents have so many high expectations of how their kids should turn out - becoming a doctor/dentist, getting an arranged marriage, no sex before marriage. how do you gay asians cope? have you come out to your parents and what was it like? are you scared of coming out to your parents?

    to be clear, when i say asians, i dont mean oriental asians :fyi:
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    Are you Gaysian ?
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    'Could you pass the spice mum?'

    'Sure'

    'Oh and by the way, I'm gay'.
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    (Original post by xfactorfan)
    asian parents have so many high expectations of how their kids should turn out - becoming a doctor/dentist, getting an arranged marriage, no sex before marriage. how do you gay asians cope? have you come out to your parents and what was it like? are you scared of coming out to your parents?

    to be clear, when i say asians, i dont mean oriental asians :fyi:
    IF I ever told my dad I was gay, he'd laugh at me thinking I was joking.
    Then probably kill me.

    (FYI -- I'm not gay )
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    (Original post by Crazydavy)
    'Could you pass the spice mum?'

    'Sure'

    'Oh and by the way, I'm gay'.


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    'Could you pass me the knife, son?'


    :creep:
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    I think, and possibly wrongly think, that asian parents will never understand - Though if you speak to them about it and make an effort again and again and ignore the screaming and violence and continue explaining, perhaps they would.

    Sometimes, even in my own life, the only solution i see is running away from the problem. (Not gay though, but certain life decisions)
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    (Original post by xfactorfan)
    asian parents have so many high expectations of how their kids should turn out - becoming a doctor/dentist, getting an arranged marriage, no sex before marriage. how do you gay asians cope? have you come out to your parents and what was it like? are you scared of coming out to your parents?

    to be clear, when i say asians, i dont mean oriental asians :fyi:
    So.. are you?
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    (Original post by Mujeriego)
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    Haha nice addon
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    I'm mixed but I have not come out with my parents, not sure if I ever will... cheers
 
 
 
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