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    about a year ago, my boyfriend and i had some trouble with a girl he used to be best mates with, when she told him to breakup with me, in front of me, and i took it very much to heart. things got very out of hand and i ended up being bullied, i was depressed and i felt worthless, and my boyfriend stood by me through it all, however at one point after i said i didnt want them in our lives anymore he admitted that he loved the other girl, but justified it as 'not as much as i love you'. it destroyed me but i stayed with him because i needed his support, and despite what he'd said, i still loved him. time passed and we kept our distances from the people that gave us grief, but now he says he wants to be best friends with her again. im scared because of whats happened, and my friend (who is also friends with her) has told me that she has pictures of him on her bedroom wall. Im terrified because she is immensly beautiful, and im confused because why would my boyfriend, the one who swore he hated her for what she did, suddenly want to be best friends with her again.

    this may seem pathetic, but thats just the short story, we've been through a lot of hell thanks to that.

    what do i do? i dont want to tell him he cant see her but it kills me to see them so close.
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    Just remember to stay calm and that your life is not a soap opera. He sounds like a bit of a dolt to be honest, you can probably do better.

    Nice anon fail, by the way...
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    (Original post by Ebbson)
    Just remember to stay calm and that your life is not a soap opera. He sounds like a bit of a dolt to be honest, you can probably do better.

    Nice anon fail, by the way...
    i know right, dont you just love laggy pc's
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    Dump his ass! He told you he loved another girl, and after she bullied you, wants to be BFFs with her! Do you see that this is not ok? x
 
 
 
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