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    i really mean EVERYTHING... and i sometimes dont want to know...
    so in my last relationship that lasted 3 years i ended up not trusting him at all and he was the type of person that would intentionally try and make you jealous,,,so i became a bit of a jealous person around him.. but ex's are ex's for reason..
    it ended and i moved on and met this amazing guy and we have been together for nearly a year now.. he makes me so happy and i honesty have no reason at all to complain cause he shows me in everyway how much he loves me..
    but he tells me everything..he says he has nothing to hide from me and wants me to know everything so that the trust between us is strong.. he will tell me if he bumped in to his ex, he told me exactly why his last relationships ended, how annoyed he was when his friend dated his ex, he pointed out the girl he had a crush on in highschool..and so on..
    but because of my experience with my ex i sometimes get carried away and feel a tiny bit insecure and like i am back in my ex relationship, even tho i shouldnt because he is just being honest with me and there is nothing wrong with that. i dont tell him anything of that sort because i think he would feel awkward as i do..but he doesnt..he wants to know..
    he is lovely and he says that i am probably the one and we are looking to buy a flat AND i know i am being irrational but i cant help not wanting to know about some things all because of my bad experience with ex trying to make me jealous...
    sorry for the rant,,, i just wanted to put my thoughts down and see what you guys think and if anyone has had the same experience!!
    thanks
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    He sounds alright, calm down woman!
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    i forgot to say i do fully trust him.. i just cant help but feel like it idid in my last relationship
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    Speak to him about it and let him know. He sounds fine tbh, but clearly doesn't know how you might be feeling when he points out people he used to fancy and such. At least he's being honest with you though - some people would beg for this! Have a chat with him, am sure he'll get what you mean
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    you are overreacting..forget about your ex. as you said ex's are ex's for a reason.
    he sounds fine. if it bothers you tho talk to him
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      I think it's the fact that you spent a long time with your ex and ended up not trusting him that's making you feel this way here. I guess that once your relationship moves into a place that you didn't have with your ex you'll feel more secure.
     
     
     
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