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    anon as don't want ex bf on here knowing my business.

    at work, there's this guy i am a bit attracted to. I have only spoken to him a few times.

    I have no idea how old he is (somewhere in the 20-25 age range, but as i'm only 18 I don't want to try to take things further if he's blatently going to reject me for being too young)or if he has a girlfriend or not. How can I ask him these things without sounding really obvious??!

    Also if he is single/the right age, how do I try to take things further?!

    I'm only temp staff at the moment, finishing in a week or so, so I don't have much time to sort this out either.
    so please help with suggestions
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    Ask for his number/facebook and take it from there.
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    (Original post by M1F2R3)
    Ask for his number/facebook and take it from there.
    BUT i've only spoke to him a few times and I still don't know how old he is or if he's already taken.
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    What do you want us to spoon-feed you information:rolleyes:[/Stuart-Baggs] [/sarcasm]
    The obvious way is to talk to him you don't need to make it obvious just take an interest in him and ask casually, he won't think anything off it.
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    just whip out your phone and go on facebook...start talking about facebook, and then pop the question about his.

    this worked a treat for me
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    i don't have internet on my phone and we're not allowed to be on our phones so it's not like i can pretend
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    Just talk about facebook and ask if he has an account. It worked when used on me; although I knew it was a line it was a safe one and I could play along or safely reject.

    As to the age gap that's nothing
 
 
 
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