Do you believe..

following on from the 'do you believe in love at first sight' thread....

do you believe in the one? as in 'the one for you forever'?

just wondering, because i dont particularly, i think that if there was, most people would never find it anyway, and it would mean that technically you were saying people were with the 'wrong' person. I think that you find someone you want to make it work with and you do just that. :biggrin:

you make it work, hard times and everything.

Reply 1

qwerty_st/n

11

well i havent met him yet so no.

Reply 2

lady_daisychain

2

yes... i think its different to love at first sight.. all this soulmate stuff develops as time goes by and as you get to know eachother better. i'm always day dreaming about meeting 'the one'... :redface:

its crazy how you get couples that are married for 50 years..

Reply 3

hippieglitter

19

I have to say i do believe in the one, though i aslo believe that some people never find theirs. My grandparents have just celebrated their diamond wedding anniversary so some people do find that special person.

Reply 4

lady_daisychain

2

its funny how its only girls in the discussion....

Reply 5

Da Bachtopus

12

No. People are not 'fated' to be together. I think for many people there are several thousand others with whom they could tolerably spend the rest of their days, but they simply only meet one or two. I also think that some people are likely to remain lonely.

Reply 6

Gem

14

I'd like to...but I don't think anyone will ever be stupid enough to think that I'm 'the one' in return :redface:

i believe in the one

the idea of one person out of the six billion on the planet being right for you is frankly ridiculous. The fact that you're likely to come into contact with th tiniest fraction of a percentage of the world's population would basically mean that 99.9%of us are doomed to die alone.

I beleive that each person has thousands if not millions of people with whom they could fall in love/get married/raise a family etc.

Reply 9

Poica

14

Yeah, there is more than one. You may well love the person you're with more than anyone else, but that doesn't mean if you hadn't met him/her you wouldn't love whatever other person you ended up with just as much

Reply 10

Lady_She

i initially belived in all that malarky, but as i get older all i know is that there is someone out there 4 evryone, it might take time..but you'll find them. and thats it, they're goin to be the one!! wot do you lot think?

katerichards

following on from the 'do you believe in love at first sight' thread....

do you believe in the one? as in 'the one for you forever'?

just wondering, because i dont particularly, i think that if there was, most people would never find it anyway, and it would mean that technically you were saying people were with the 'wrong' person. I think that you find someone you want to make it work with and you do just that. :biggrin:

you make it work, hard times and everything.

Reply 11

CherryGarcia

1

I believe and I have met one and we are together for 2 almost 2 years :love:

Reply 12

Dalimyr

17

I do believe in "the one", though I'm also in agreement that it's unlikely you'll find that person...however, I'm also of the opinion that while you may not find "the one" that's perfect for you, there's still a more realistic chance of finding someone who is close to perfect for you.

Unfortunately, I have to agree with Gem. Even if I find the one for me, the feeling is unlikely to be reciprocal :frown:

Reply 13

Segat1

16

i reckon there can be more than one. but thats just me, I can't find anyone I particularly like, let alone love and I am a hot chick (no ****!!)

Reply 14

..anna..

1

katerichards

following on from the 'do you believe in love at first sight' thread....

do you believe in the one? as in 'the one for you forever'?

just wondering, because i dont particularly, i think that if there was, most people would never find it anyway, and it would mean that technically you were saying people were with the 'wrong' person. I think that you find someone you want to make it work with and you do just that. :biggrin:

you make it work, hard times and everything.

i like to believe it

Reply 15

Amlea

1

i wpuld like to believe it BUT i dunno if he'll want me in return u know... :frown:

Reply 16

loopyloo243

1

I believe in it. I don't believe in the concept of 'the one' who is absolutely perfect for you and is completely flawless, but I believe in a partner who really stands out from the rest. I think that there are many 'ones' with whom you can share great relationships with, but fewer with whom you can have truly wonderful relationships.
Personally, I believe I've found my 'one'. :dancing:

Reply 17

Tim Street

I've been out with a fair few girls this year and not found the one. I dunno, perhaps cuz this "the one" malarchy distorts my judgement, i just think rite ur not the one , next? when actually if I just perservere more I may discover that they are the one.