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    A guy in my university added me on FaceBook, we had never spoken before this..I hav only seen him a few times around. He inboxed me and then asked why we have never talked properly or hung out together. He said he wants to get to know me. Then he said that we should start doing that after the new year.

    He is gorgeous, a bit like brad pitt so why he would even want to speak to a girl like me is just beyond me. I don't have his number or anything so where do I go from here? Just leave it all as it is over xmas?
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    Umm reply to his message?
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    Don't put him off by acting all excited, but don't act cold aswell. Just let him do the chasing and if he still expresses interest in 2011, meet up and see how it goes.
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    How do you keep his interest when he's the one who's started the contact and making the effort? What?
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    when he comes through that door jump on him naked! always works
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    (Original post by yoyo462001)
    Umm reply to his message?
    but he hasnt sent anymore....
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    (Original post by Freud)
    How do you keep his interest when he's the one who's started the contact and making the effort? What?
    um why are you confused about that .. ?
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    (Original post by damos92)
    Don't put him off by acting all excited, but don't act cold aswell. Just let him do the chasing and if he still expresses interest in 2011, meet up and see how it goes.
    Is this right? How would being excited put him off? Perhaps I need more understanding.
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    (Original post by TruthJS)
    Is this right? How would being excited put him off? Perhaps I need more understanding.
    Because a guy who just wants to get to know a girl doesn't want her professing her love and what not and acting like Christmas has come early, it will make him feel scared and possibly overwhelmed.

    I'm speaking for myself here and a few people i know, OP's guy might not be the same.
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    What gave you the impression that he was interested to begin with?

    I say he's probably hooking up with some other girl right this second.... time to move on I think.

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    (Original post by damos92)
    Because a guy who just wants to get to know a girl doesn't want her professing her love and what not and acting like Christmas has come early, it will make him feel scared and possibly overwhelmed.

    I'm speaking for myself here and a few people i know, OP's guy might not be the same.
    This. Don't necessarily play hard to get but he wants you to play "ooh, maybe a bit of challenge, I'm going to have to break out my A-list witty material" to get, otherwise he's going to be trying to talk and be flirty and you be all like SO WHAT'S OUR FIRST CHILD GOING TO BE CALLED, I THINK JEREMY IS A NICE NAME
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    (Original post by ilyking)
    when he comes through that door jump on him naked! always works
    LOL
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    (Original post by ilyking)
    when he comes through that door jump on him naked! always works
    Actually I do this
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    Get on your knees... and you know the rest.
    That will defo keep him interested.
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    (Original post by The TSR Star.)
    A guy in my university added me on FaceBook, we had never spoken before this..I hav only seen him a few times around. He inboxed me and then asked why we have never talked properly or hung out together. He said he wants to get to know me. Then he said that we should start doing that after the new year.

    He is gorgeous, a bit like brad pitt so why he would even want to speak to a girl like me is just beyond me. I don't have his number or anything so where do I go from here? Just leave it all as it is over xmas?
    Just PM back saying 'OK, let me know when you're back" and leave it at that. As others have said I wouldn’t hang my hat on anything becoming of it but who knows.
 
 
 
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