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    Anon or bust.

    Guy posting. How would you pull in a club without appearing to desperate/rapey? Basically I just want to have some fun at the moment, after my last attempts at a relationship ended less well than I'd hoped. I go clubbing about once a week, but I've never really tried to pull anyone before, at least not properly. Any girl I've been with before has always been a friend or a friend of a friend who I've gotten with over time. If I do pull should I expect anything to come out of it either, or just 1 night stands, if that?

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    Expect nothing and enjoy yourself. Everyone is pretty open at clubs, just make up some on-the-spot conversation/banter and see where it leads. If nowhere, then fine! Just make conversation with someone else.

    The old exchange of eye contact always works too :sexface: If she's looking at you, smiling, walk over and ask how she's doing.
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    "Hey, can I buy you a drink?"

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    Very funny :rolleyes:

    Any other tips? Thanks
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    (Original post by JCC-MGS)
    "Hey, can I buy you a drink?"

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    LMAO!

    OP - what I do is just go with the flow. take it easy and don't expect anything. And before you know it, you're in there chatting up some single, horny lass. A simple eye contact, smile, and a few good funny lines and you're pretty much in there.
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    get pissed out your face
    make sure you can dance

    both of the above will get you a girl every time you go out (if your not horrendous looking)
    try hit the student nights
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    (Original post by Roo Bix)
    Expect nothing and enjoy yourself. Everyone is pretty open at clubs, just make up some on-the-spot conversation/banter and see where it leads. If nowhere, then fine! Just make conversation with someone else.

    The old exchange of eye contact always works too :sexface: If she's looking at you, smiling, walk over and ask how she's doing.
    This. Eyecontact my friend, EYECONTACT!
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    (Original post by Rusty360)
    get pissed out your face
    make sure you can dance

    both of the above will get you a girl every time you go out (if your not horrendous looking)
    try hit the student nights
    how do you make sure you can dance?

    i also dont think both of those will get you a girl every time (even if you are good looking).
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    smokers area, perfect place for a chat, make the girl laugh and being really light hearted. no girl likes the guy who comes over and does they "hey, how are you, yeh, that a pretty name, etc" and that will only working if your good looking enough for them to just wanna ****
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    1. Dont go out expecting to get anything. Go out to have fun.
    2. Eye contact; make it with someone you find attractive. And remember to smile. If they return it, mosey on over and ask them if they want a drink/dance.
    3. Go with the flow.
 
 
 
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