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    Long story short I don't drink alcohol for various reasons but I do like clubbing a lot. Anyway, everytime I go out to a club, I get a few girls coming up and grinding on me and stuff but I never take it any further because for some reason it just seems wrong getting with a drunk girl when I'm not drunk myself? Anyone else feel this way? Would any girls here find it weird if they got with a guy in a club whilst drunk and then he told you he wasn't? I find it awkward for some reason.

    It just feels like I'm taking advantage of a girl if I do get with her whilst she's drunk and I'm not...am I being stupid?
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    Don't look for girls in a club then? Problem solved.
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    well if theyre coming onto you i dont think your taking advantage!
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    ...am I being stupid?
    Yes.
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    Start drinking..
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    Slap drinks out of pretty girls' hands and say 'I'm saving you from the devil.'
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    (Original post by Mittalmar)
    Slap drinks out of pretty girl's hands and say 'I'm saving you from the devil.'
    I'm not very religious at all so really don't care if people drink or not

    Tbh the main reason I made this thread was to see if girls would find it awkward getting with a guy whilst drunk and then finding out afterwards the guy wasn't?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I'm not very religious at all so really don't care if people drink or not

    Tbh the main reason I made this thread was to see if girls would find it awkward getting with a guy whilst drunk and then finding out afterwards the guy wasn't?
    it would make them approximately 73% more likely to accuse you of rape
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Long story short I don't drink alcohol for various reasons but I do like clubbing a lot. Anyway, everytime I go out to a club, I get a few girls coming up and grinding on me and stuff but I never take it any further because for some reason it just seems wrong getting with a drunk girl when I'm not drunk myself? Anyone else feel this way? Would any girls here find it weird if they got with a guy in a club whilst drunk and then he told you he wasn't? I find it awkward for some reason.

    It just feels like I'm taking advantage of a girl if I do get with her whilst she's drunk and I'm not...am I being stupid?
    Meet them in the daytime in the street instead, that is what I do. I don't drink, and don't bother with nightclubs these days. Too much hassle. Nightclubs are not the best places to meet women. Daytime is much better.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Long story short I don't drink alcohol for various reasons but I do like clubbing a lot. Anyway, everytime I go out to a club, I get a few girls coming up and grinding on me and stuff but I never take it any further because for some reason it just seems wrong getting with a drunk girl when I'm not drunk myself? Anyone else feel this way? Would any girls here find it weird if they got with a guy in a club whilst drunk and then he told you he wasn't? I find it awkward for some reason.

    It just feels like I'm taking advantage of a girl if I do get with her whilst she's drunk and I'm not...am I being stupid?
    If I was a man I would feel guilty about it too, but if they're going to get with someone anyway, one of you might as well be clear- headed. Why don't you find a girl who doesn't drink? x
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    never been drunk, dont drink and dont tend to go out at weekends often (my god I sound dull) but I really enjoy socialising. Just try to find girls in other situations, at work/college/when shopping, they do exist and there are loads of people similar to yourself... not everyone like to go binge drinking every weekend. hope that helps
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    Ummm... well as a girl who doesn't drink that much but goes clubbing I would prefer it so much more if the guy was not drunk but that is often very rare and maybe it is just me
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    There's a word for sober guys taking advantage of drunk girls.
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    Just try not to get with people who aren't too drunk?

    If anything I pull more when I slightly-moderately drunk, and occasionally almost fully sober, past that I just dance badly and offend people.

    I wouldn't be offended if I found out someone I'd got kissed when drunk was sober, but I might find it weird if they were sober and I was wasted and we'd had sex (although I'm rarely wasted and tend to go for the same people each time).
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    What the hell are you doing out when you're not drinking in the first place?!

    Grow a pair, get some shots down you and go back onto that dancefloor and show that girl how its done!
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    (Original post by Crazy Paving)
    There's a word for sober guys taking advantage of drunk girls.
    is it soberguystakinadvatageofdrunkgir ls?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Long story short I don't drink alcohol for various reasons but I do like clubbing a lot. Anyway, everytime I go out to a club, I get a few girls coming up and grinding on me and stuff but I never take it any further because for some reason it just seems wrong getting with a drunk girl when I'm not drunk myself? Anyone else feel this way? Would any girls here find it weird if they got with a guy in a club whilst drunk and then he told you he wasn't? I find it awkward for some reason.

    It just feels like I'm taking advantage of a girl if I do get with her whilst she's drunk and I'm not...am I being stupid?
    I wouldn't worry too much to be honest I certainly wouldn't find it weird. If anything, aren't you more likely to actually like the girl... not judging her through beer goggles?

    There are girls that go out and don't drink you know. Try to spot the ones on J20s?
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    (Original post by dadude)
    is it soberguystakinadvatageofdrunkgir ls?
    No.
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    It's not like a girls gonna come up to you in a club, pull you, the think you're an ******* the next day for 'taking advantage of her'.

    If they're random girls they might think you're drunk anyway, and not all of them are drunk.

    Heard this from someone: "alcohol doesn't make you do things you don't want to do, it makes you do things you do want to do, just gets rid of the inhibitions that stop you doing them".

    So relax, if you want to pull, pull. If not, enjoy the night. Count yourself as one of the lucky guys who can enjoy clubbing even if they don't pull
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    personally, i'd be very annoyed. but then again, i don't get drunk and sleep with random boys.

    i reckon if a girl's stupid enough to get drunk and want to sleep with you, then you're not taking advantage of her. she might regret it, but that's her own fault.

    why don't you have sex with someone you actually like rather than a stupid drunk girl who won't even remember it?
 
 
 
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