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    Hello
    I’m from a low income family, parents not working, homeless(live in a temporary council flat) and have an alcoholics dad. I want to change my life though not just to have a better future for myself but for my siblings too. My little brother is 4 and my sister is 7. My dad drinks every night and when he is drunk he picks on my mum and I. He shouts and swears at us, he calls my mum a whore when she is the most decent and innocent mum on earth, let me just mention that I’m from a Muslim family too. My dad isn’t religious on the other hand my still believes in Allah and she believes he will one day help us to have a better quality of living. I cry and get depressed everyday, my house is so cold, we hardly have any furniture and our fridge is usually empty. I want to change my mum’s and my sibling’s life, and have applied to study dentistry so that one day I can buy a big house and live comfortably with my mum and siblings. However I know that it will take probably 10 years for me to be able to afford a house and comfortable life for my family, I have already sacrificed so much for them and I’m willing not to get married and change their lives. But I want to change it NOW, my mum is getting older and ill. I have realised that the only reason that I could change their life in near future is by becoming a prostitute. Im moving away to another city in September and I am willing to do anything to get just that much money that I can afford a house and a better future for my siblings. However I’m not quite sure if becoming a prostitute will enable me to make the amount of money that I need. I would absolutely do anything to change their lives. And I hate my dad for giving us such a bad life. The saddest thing is that his brothers and sisters have professional jobs and earn a lot money, my cousins have a comfortable life and always go on holiday.
    I have lost my faith in god and I just want to do something to change their life. Don’t really know why I’m posting here but I just need to tell someone
    I know there are lots of other people living in worse conditions but I really need to do something.
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    really jus need some advice =[
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    Charge by the hour. The average time a guy lasts with a prostitute is 11mins, so its a pretty sweet deal really.
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    Get a job ya bum!
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      Go for it, I don't understand why so many people are against prostitution.
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      You need to talk to someone like the Samaritans:
      http://www.samaritans.org/talk_to_someone.aspx

      Prostitution is not the way to go, you are better than that. Start by talking to Samaritans, it may be suggested that you, your Mum, brothers and sisters stay in temporary accommodation such as a hostel. Maybe think about getting a transfer via the council to move somewhere else? That could provide you with the fresh start you need.

      Is your Dad aware of his drinking problems/effects on the family?
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      (Original post by Hooj)
      Get a job ya bum!
      I am an A level student, prably getting better grades that you. and I have a part time job and get paid less than £6 per hour. I give my money to my mum so that she can buy food and clothes for my siblings since my dad spends most of the money on Alcohol. don't call me a bum if u dont know **** about me
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      (Original post by hanaa-)
      Hello
      I’m from a low income family, parents not working, homeless(live in a temporary council flat) and have an alcoholics dad. I want to change my life though not just to have a better future for myself but for my siblings too. My little brother is 4 and my sister is 7. My dad drinks every night and when he is drunk he picks on my mum and I. He shouts and swears at us, he calls my mum a whore when she is the most decent and innocent mum on earth, let me just mention that I’m from a Muslim family too. My dad isn’t religious on the other hand my still believes in Allah and she believes he will one day help us to have a better quality of living. I cry and get depressed everyday, my house is so cold, we hardly have any furniture and our fridge is usually empty. I want to change my mum’s and my sibling’s life, and have applied to study dentistry so that one day I can buy a big house and live comfortably with my mum and siblings. However I know that it will take probably 10 years for me to be able to afford a house and comfortable life for my family, I have already sacrificed so much for them and I’m willing not to get married and change their lives. But I want to change it NOW, my mum is getting older and ill. I have realised that the only reason that I could change their life in near future is by becoming a prostitute. Im moving away to another city in September and I am willing to do anything to get just that much money that I can afford a house and a better future for my siblings. However I’m not quite sure if becoming a prostitute will enable me to make the amount of money that I need. I would absolutely do anything to change their lives. And I hate my dad for giving us such a bad life. The saddest thing is that his brothers and sisters have professional jobs and earn a lot money, my cousins have a comfortable life and always go on holiday.
      I have lost my faith in god and I just want to do something to change their life. Don’t really know why I’m posting here but I just need to tell someone
      I know there are lots of other people living in worse conditions but I really need to do something.
      Do you really think being a prostitute will give you a house for you and your family to live in?

      And having faith in God would help you how...?

      Don't be naive, just carry on studying like your fathers brothers and sisters and you will get what you want.
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      (Original post by Roo Bix)
      You need to talk to someone like the Samaritans:
      http://www.samaritans.org/talk_to_someone.aspx

      Prostitution is not the way to go, you are better than that. Start by talking to Samaritans, it may be suggested that you, your Mum, brothers and sisters stay in temporary accommodation such as a hostel. Maybe think about getting a transfer via the council to move somewhere else? That could provide you with the fresh start you need.

      Is your Dad aware of his drinking problems/effects on the family?
      yeh we been trying with the council, but they haven't done anything. yes he knows but he doesn't care. he tells us he likes living like this and he can't do anything to provide us with money. he doesn't even work it's so depressing to see how other dads care about their family yet mine just wants his alcohol
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      (Original post by hanaa-)
      I am an A level student, prably getting better grades that you. and I have a part time job and get paid less than £6 per hour. I give my money to my mum so that she can buy food and clothes for my siblings since my dad spends most of the money on Alcohol. don't call me a bum if u dont know **** about me
      Ignore him, he's a ****

      But as someone said, ring Samaritans, they are there for people like you.

      Have you spoke to your siblings about it?
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      Go for it.

      My cousin escorted through university and saved 80k which she used as part of her mortgage deposit once she graduated.

      Get a top agency.

      Charge no less that 300 an hour.

      Always have a driver/taxi

      If you go through an agency they vet clients which removes the risk of psycho's.

      Always get the money first then pretend to go to the loo , count it, bring a fake money checker pen make sure it's real.

      Get down to business.

      Don't tell ANYONE at uni.

      Only tell your VERY closest people who will never judge you.

      My cousin only told me and my sister
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      (Original post by ussumane)
      Do you really think being a prostitute will give you a house for you and your family to live in?

      And having faith in God would help you how...?

      Don't be naive, just carry on studying like your fathers brothers and sisters and you will get what you want.

      it's not about what I want, I just want money to make my brother and sister's life better, yea I wana study and I Do enjoy it as well but it's going to be long I want to do something now :/
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      hiah, please don't go into prostitution!!! the only problrm that will partially clear up is your financial issues, and from the sounds of your post there are more important issues that need to be cleared up. i sort of understad your situation as both my parents are alcoholics, and i know how it feels to have someone you love and care about suddenly change into a monster... you have a younger sister who is in the same situation youre in so think about that

      as far as advice goes, i don't really know what to tell you sorry. i know people will post for you to call social services or see a psychologist, or get your dad help... but personally i know it isn't that easy. sorry x
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      (Original post by Rzc)
      Ignore him, he's a ****

      But as someone said, ring Samaritans, they are there for people like you.

      Have you spoke to your siblings about it?
      they are too young, one is 4 and the other one is 7
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      (Original post by hanaa-)
      yeh we been trying with the council, but they haven't done anything. yes he knows but he doesn't care. he tells us he likes living like this and he can't do anything to provide us with money. he doesn't even work it's so depressing to see how other dads care about their family yet mine just wants his alcohol
      You need to contact them and explain that you're situation is an emergency. Don't take no for an answer.
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      (Original post by hanaa-)
      it's not about what I want, I just want money to make my brother and sister's life better, yea I wana study and I Do enjoy it as well but it's going to be long I want to do something now :/
      You don't get enough money with prostitution, and there may be a chance that your family be ashamed of you doing that profession.
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      (Original post by hanaa-)
      Hello I’m 21 and a girl.the two main reasons that I’m not having sex are 1)not in a serious relationship right now and 2) my religion (i don't really follow it though )
      I masturbate and it hurts every single cell of my body when every part of me wants it so much and I am unable to receive any any advice
      http://www.thestudentroom.co.uk/show...457&highlight=

      Few days ago, you posted this thread, where you seem to be craving for sex, now I'm not sure whether its your family which is making you to turn to prostitution or your own uncontrollable lust? :holmes:

      There are many decent ways to earn money, my dear. Don't do something which you will regret later. :console:

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      (Original post by PortiaLovesMcqueen)
      Go for it.

      My cousin escorted through university and saved 80k which she used as part of her mortgage deposit once she graduated.

      Get a top agency.

      Charge no less that 300 an hour.

      Always have a driver/taxi

      If you go through an agency they vet clients which removes the risk of psycho's.

      Always get the money first then pretend to go to the loo , count it, bring a fake money checker pen make sure it's real.

      Get down to business.

      Don't tell ANYONE at uni.

      Only tell your VERY closest people who will never judge you.

      My cousin only told me and my sister
      80k **** off! Did she have model good looks? why else would anyone pay 300/hour?! ahh if only i were a woman :daydreaming:
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      (Original post by ussumane)
      You don't get enough money with prostitution, and there may be a chance that your family be ashamed of you doing that profession.
      My parents won't find out, I'm moving away and I Will still be at uni studying my course. I just really need the money
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      Look turning to prostitution will not solve your problems yh you'll have money bt will your mum want you to give her money by doing something against ure religion am nt judging jus saying i knw it must be hard as long as you have ure mum and siblings thts wht counts its matters are really bad plz get some professional help like smartians dont worry x
     
     
     
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