Hate being at home. Advice please!!

I know how you feel! My friends started leaving uni to go home on Thursday and every time another one went it felt horrible, I'm not at home and there's nothing to do, I have work but it just seems like it's going to a be looong month. I'm arranging to go spend a week with a mate from uni though, maybe you could do that? That way it's not a whole month off, a week of xmas, a week of new year and essay writing, a week with my mate and then a week to finish my work and go back to uni!

There are people dying across the world through poverty and diseases, they haven't got water or bread.

Get a grip you spoilt bitch.

Christ, she was only asking for advice. We can't all be working every day to solve world poverty and disease, you know. She isn't spoilt, she is genuinely unhappy.

OP, my only advice would be to keep yourself occupied. Do you think you could, as someone else suggested, meet up with uni friends, or get in touch with old school friends. As for the flat situation, perhaps just say you've been thinking it through and think that it would be a good idea after all. Explain to her what you said above about having your own space etc.

Thanks....erm, just need some advice now!

So I got back from Uni the other day, and I already want to go back. I live in the middle of nowhere with nothing to do. My mum has some kind of borderline personality disorder and anger issues (always has had). My little sister is always with her boyfriend/at work.

My room at home is soooooo tiny as well. I literally can't take anything out of my suitcase and the house is always freezing. I took a gap year so all my friends have good new friendships and everyones just kind of moved on except me, cos I just met my Uni friends a few months ago.

I'm ploughing on with work (even though Im not doing the degree I wanted) and just eating/sleeping. But it's making me so depressed I just cry all the time. Also, my mum has a bit of money put aside and she said she was gonna buy a flat in my Uni city with it and I could live in it. I said I'd rather live with my friends (this was before Uni) but now I feel thats a good idea as she won't give me money for rent and theres friend politics, I'd just like my own space. How do I even start to tell her I've changed my mind?

td;dr version
I hate being at home. How can I fill the void.
My mum was gonna buy a 1 bed flat which I could live in at Uni....but I said I'd rather live with my friends. Now I've changed my mind. How do I tell her?

My advice not good enough

Hey work somewhere.
Or just ask her see how it goes.

Work would be good. Unfortunately I truly live in the middle of nowhere.

Hmmmm may I ask where you live? Go onto google maps type in your home and find the nearest supermarket. lol :/

Yeah lol...there is a supermarket not too far away and I sent in an application form a couple of months ago but nothing. Its quite a poor area so jobs in supermarkets needing no qualifications just go so quickly. I used to work in this little cafe as a waitress but I gave the job to my lil sister when I went away and theres not enough work for the both of us!

Awwwww why dont you work at home? If your intrested ill PM you.

Yeah lol...there is a supermarket not too far away and I sent in an application form a couple of months ago but nothing. Its quite a poor area so jobs in supermarkets needing no qualifications just go so quickly. I used to work in this little cafe as a waitress but I gave the job to my lil sister when I went away and theres not enough work for the both of us!

Sent you a PM

Thank-you!! I will try but am a bit dyslexic so it may take me a while!