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Is he playing hard to get...? watch

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    Sorry, quite hard to summarise and i know it's difficult to give advice when you don't know the full story...

    This guy DEFINITELY knows that i like him (and things have happened before), and he has said he doesn't like me on any higher level than what's already happened and doesn't want a relationship with anyone.

    But when i saw him in a club on friday night, he stared at me and then walked very closely by my group of friends, looking ahead/everywhere but me (almost certainly on purpose), then walked back again.

    He knows fine well that if he wanted to pull me, he could have, so why would he bother with the games...? I must admit that recently when i've gotten drunk and seen him, i've texted him or gone up to him, particularly over the last couple of weeks. Last week he was going to come back to mine then changed his mind and wanted me to go to his, which i refused to do since he'd already agreed, so it just ended in a mini argument. He's shown a side he's never shown me before, which is another thing I don't get - why has he stopped trying to hide from me the fact that he's actualy a bit of a d*ck, when he seems to show other girls a different side?

    Felt like i was being tested really, which is maybe the case. Perhaps this time he was making sure i saw him again and expecting me to text/approach him.

    We have no communication outside of drunkeness, which is probably part of the problem but i can't bring myself to put in any more effort after all the times i've tried with him. It's so degrading. From what i've heard he's the type that wants the girl to do the hard work and make the first move.

    Basically, what feelings do you think it suggests? or am I kidding myself and he's actually indifferent?

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