I met this wonderful guy at uni - originally we were acquaintances from a society but realised we had loads in common and had some really good conversations. Our relationship quickly developed - hanging out several times a week, in contact a lot etc.
He has done all of the asking to come round/go round, he calls/IMs me, he's cooked me dinner, we've swapped books and watched lots of movies together. We spent a lot of time alone but also in groups, and he says cute things i.e. we were complaining about this club in town, and he said "sorry for being so negative all the time". I replied that he wasn't negative and that he's a very positive person to be around. He said that he's always more positive when he's with me and when I was a bit drunk and my hair got stuck on my face he stroked it away and was looking down at me smiling.
It kinda felt like we were dating - the hols came and i went to say goodbye (on his invitation!) he hugged me for a really long time, kissed me on the cheek and then I instinctively held his face and we gazed at each other - we almost kissed! But I was so stressed about trains and such that it didn't happen.
The thing is that I texted him a couple of days ago, and there's been no contact except for a couple of facebook likes. Its been four days since our "almost" kiss.
I want to be with him - do you think he wants to be with me?
What should I do/think about this sudden lack of contact?
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