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    I met this guy in a bar last week on my last few days before finishing university before christmas. This guys university was just down the road from me, so I ended up going back to his flat.. when we were there he seemed quite shy and was like I am so tired now I'm going to bed.. we ended up chatting for a while and he said to me you are beautiful, why don't you have a boyfriend? I replied saying why do you think I'm beautiful? (I was quite drunk) and he was like have you not seen yourself? After this he turned out the light and started kissing me, then it moved onto sex. We ended up going to sleep at 7am, I do remember waking up and he was lying really close to me. In the morning he had his head down and seemed really embaressed. He walked me to the bus stop and neither of us were talking...I didn't get his number Do you think he was just making it up when he said you are beautiful?! Or would he just have been saying that to get me into bed????

    I would like to add, I am not a get around.. I've slept with 1 guy before this guy and that was my ex who I lost my V to. I have strong feelings about not sleeping around, I know I made a mistake and I was drunk.. however I did find him attractive and I did make the decision to sleep with him (under the influence of alcohol).

    Well to be honest it seems like you would possibly have still slept with him if he had initiated sex without saying that. So does it really matter?

    gutted. It happens to everyone, I reckon. Sometimes I've slept with genuinely very pretty and nice girls but the next morning, in the cold light of day, I just feel really disgusted for some reason. I don't know what causes it, man.

    Afterwards I just leave ASAP and often avoid contact. It's a shame.

    ...Does it matter?
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