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    Me and my girlfriend have been talking suggestively to each other and we are both ready to have sex (we almost have already, until her mum came home...)

    Anyway, she has had sex with 4 guys before me, so she knows what to expect. I however have never had sex and have no clue what to expect from my first time.

    I really want to have good sex with her - I've made her orgasm before, so I can pre-heat the oven so to speak.

    Basically what I'm asking is, should I expect our first time together to be crap or is it likely that, assuming I don't blow my load too early, it'll be good?
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    Well I was raped as a child, so I'm gonna say first time sex is bad.
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    Well I me and my current boyfriend were both virgins when we lost ours, so it was awkward and not great but we didn't have much to compare it to. If she's had it before she will probs take the lead giving you time to get adjusted
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    She can teach you :sexface:
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    My first time was great and successive times were not so good, sex is a fickle friend. Generally though, the rule is that first-time sex is basically just a sticky fumbly mess, your girl should know this so don't sweat it.
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    Also condoms help to make sure you don't go too quickly I find, if you've already given her an orgasm then you have a good chance of her going.
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    Why on earth do you want an opinion on this? Seriously...

    ...please don't tell me there is some girl lying on her back asking what you are upto as you type conspicuously one handly onto your laptop.
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    (Original post by Jake22)
    Why on earth do you want an opinion on this? Seriously...

    ...please don't tell me there is some girl lying on her back asking what you are upto as you type conspicuously one handly onto your laptop.
 
 
 
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