Well I am on the. Xmas holidays now. But before we broke up. I was in the library i n the quiet study area. There was. This real acttractive girl in there with her mate. As soon as I saw her I literally thought to myself "she is beautiful" and after a while of listening to her and her mate (she was friggin loud you could not do nothing BUT to listen to her) I actually realised I like her style and personality. I thought she was very attractive. Not just the usual boobs and bum and legs which tbh were bloody brilliant. She goes to my college as you would know. Im only 16 and she is 17(a year older than me or few months we dont need to be exact)
In the library she was looking at me a bit and I looked at her a bit. And a few days prior to this I remember seeing her in the corridor of another block at college and she xaught my eye we both smiled at each other. I dont know if she remembered me from this previous occurance. I dont know her classes except she does drama. I dont want to look like a knob though. As I have made an ass of myself before.
The only problem is I am not exactly the best conversational person especially with girls and I am embarrased to **** things up at my brand new college. The last thing I want. So can people help me out.
I only know what she looks like and her na me: Jodie.
SO: How can I get her to be my "lady friend" or at least try her.
How can I get this girl. Watch
- Thread Starter
- 21-12-2010 04:37
- 21-12-2010 11:31
Make friends with her guy friends first.
- 21-12-2010 11:36
omg shes 17 and your 16 that is like soo not cool dude
- 21-12-2010 11:38
Make friends with her guy friends and get friendly with her best girl friend first. If they approval of you, your in.
Besides from the advice everyone else will probably give you like be confident etc (which is good).
- Girls want what they can't have.
- She isn't any better than you.
Just go talk to her. Follow your own intentions and take action.
If you want somthing, go and get it. Period.Last edited by Different Cloud; 21-12-2010 at 11:43.
- 21-12-2010 11:39
Learn when to use full stops. Apart from that, just go up to her and be genuine, friendly and playful.
- 21-12-2010 11:39
DO NOT say 'Hi Jodie, you do drama don't you?' because that will initiate QI-style alarm bells in her head saying 'STALKER' lol
You've just got to start the conversation - which is easier than you'd think. It doesn't matter if she isn't attracted to you, politeness (in normal people anyway) dictates that it's rude to ignore someone, so she will respond. Be yourself is all I can say. If you're being yourself and she thinks you're making a fool of yourself, then she isn't the one for you.
Don't kid yourself that being cool will get you girls. It will only get you girls if you ARE cool, not if oyu have to put the cool facade on (like most idiots).
Being yourself will get someone you can really know, trust and love
- 21-12-2010 11:46
What's up with the full stops?
Just be confident and go get her. If you're too shy to talk to her, try and get to know her friends first and ease your way in.