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How sex crazed are students?

Is university as sex crazed as it seems? My friends and I are a bit concerned about this, because the impression I am getting is that the majority of people seem to have an aim of simply having sex with anyone without having any genuine feelings for anyone. My friends and I are in the minority now at school, as we won't simply go out with etc just anyone because they have the right genitalia - is this atmosphere going to get worse at university?

Reply 1

Fire Point

12

I sure hope uni is sexcrazed as I want that to be a big part of it.

Reply 2

wazzup

Daibhidh

I sure hope uni is sexcrazed as I want that to be a big part of it.

me too.

Reply 3

Fire Point

12

Didn't read your whole thread, but I'm sure there are tonnes of good folk wanting real relationships and sex at the same time so don't worry, its all an insane mix.

Reply 4

Amlea

1

I suppose its like most things in life...you take the good with the bad!

Reply 5

The Albatross

12

tbh, it can be as sex crazed as you want it to be! I mean, the opportunities are likely to be there, but its up to you if you want to take them.
There is no generalisation about this. There will people who will sleep around, and those who don't have sex at all, for what ever reason.Most people are somewhere in the middle. I came to uni a virgin, and really shy, not even considering the possibilty of sex really. But then I met my bf, lost my virginity to him, and we've been together a year.

so just be mature about it, and don't let anyone but you decide how much sex you have!

Reply 6

Helenia

20

I would say from my experience that it is not quite the 3 year orgy it's made out to be. There are people who have a lot of sex (NB, they won't necessarily be the ones in this thread advertising how gagging for it they are), and people who have none. As long as you are reasonably accepting of other people's choices, they will be of yours, in general.

Guys - grow up :rolleyes:

Reply 7

asgardrune

1

different?

Is university as sex crazed as it seems? My friends and I are a bit concerned about this, because the impression I am getting is that the majority of people seem to have an aim of simply having sex with anyone without having any genuine feelings for anyone. My friends and I are in the minority now at school, as we won't simply go out with etc just anyone because they have the right genitalia - is this atmosphere going to get worse at university?

it's nothing different from any other place where boys and girls are together...don't think so bad about it...only a few people are sexcrazed...the majority isn't

Reply 8

Ariel4

1

no, its not. if you dont wanna have sex with someone, dont, nobody laughs at you for it, its not like being in school. some people i know bring people back with them all the time after nights out, but most people dont. nobody really cares who you do/dont sleep with.

Reply 9

naelse

15

I think in general people are more mature about this kind of stuff when it gets to uni. I've never seen anyone being pressured or made an outcast because they weren't out on the pull every night...

Reply 10

different?

OP

2

There is hope then! Thank you!

Reply 11

MagicNMedicine

20

oh yeah? so where are these options then L.J. !!

Reply 12

Fyska

9

In my (limited) experience, I would say that people are generally more interested in getting wasted than laid.

Reply 13

Tim Street

dont be so boring! live a little!

Reply 14

different?

OP

2

Time Kabel : There's living and there's having standards

Reply 15

username30638

13

I read somewhere that students spend more time thinking about sex than actually "doing it" - I've been at uni for 4 weeks & I would say that it is true. Of course there are some people who bring randoms back to their rooms every night, but they really are the minority. There are a lot of shy people at university, and not all students are sex crazed maniacs.

Reply 16

MagicNMedicine

20

jeff2233

I read somewhere that students spend more time thinking about sex than actually "doing it" - I've been at uni for 4 weeks & I would say that it is true. Of course there are some people who bring randoms back to their rooms every night, but they really are the minority. There are a lot of shy people at university, and not all students are sex crazed maniacs.

every 6 seconds would be pushing it

Reply 17

hanadeka2002

I haven't seen much 'sex crazed' ness going on around here but I have heard rumours of people sleeping with 5 people in the first week.

Skanks.

Reply 18

Dekota

In the first year I got here, (Oxford) I was forced to have sex; threesome.

funny enough; I can't remember a thing ! :redface:

Reply 19

Little Girl Red

1

well ive just spent the evening fending off a drunk slag (sorry for the abuse, im just really annoyed) from my boyfriend, who was too pissed to notice. when she got tired of me appearing everytime she tried to move in on him, she tried it on with his brother (who im also really close to and is very shy) and was just all pushy and eugh.
i would say, there is a lot of sex going on at university, and sure you can choose whether you want to be a part of it MOST of the time.
and also: to the person who said people dont care who you do/don't sleep with, there is SO MUCH gossip here. if you get around, so does the gossip lol.

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