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Settle for second best?

So you're single and looking.. You have your eyes on two people..


First one is decent looking, you're more happy with their looks and you would look great together as a couple. You get along so well and you can tell this is going to be one hell of a good relationship, it looks as if it'll last long and there is even that chance you might go to the very end (marriage). You're both practically made for eachother. The person doesn't get alot of attention from the opposite sex which you're happy about.. You so don't want the silly arguments.

Second one is better looking than the first one, is more well off etc etc. Yet you don't get along with the person as much as the first one.. Infact, you don't talk much but you think the person is very good looking but do get along, somewhat. And because of that, they do get alot of attention, which does make you feel insecure? You can tell it'll be an average relationship, and doesn't look promising enough to last years and years, but who knows what the future will hold.




Who do you go for? :smile: Which one is second best, and why?

The answer may seem 'obvious', but think to yourselves, how many of you are actually with the 'second one'? Exactly. :smile:


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Reply 1
I'd choose the first :smile:

Just because I would prefer to be with someone who I love for them, and makes me feel happy and loved, regardless of their looks and money. Honest I would. I wouldn't settle for second best, I'd rather be lonely than with somoene I wasn't serious about.
agree with Gem, i'll settle with the one who feels more right for you.

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Reply 3
shag the second one, wake up in the morning and go see the 1st one.
Reply 4
jusfarhan
1. Who do you go for? :smile: 2. Which one is second best, and why?

The answer may seem 'obvious', but think to yourselves, 3. how many of you are actually with the 'second one'? Exactly. :smile:
1. person A (the first one)...
2. it's likely not going to last with person B...
3. i'm with no one...
Clearly, go for the first one! Immediately!
Never ever ever ever settle for second best. Always go with who is best for you.
Reply 7
have both, that way you wont miss out and there is no second best :P,
Reply 8
lol I know few will admit it, but meh most get drawn to the 2nd one (pretty much always)
I mean you get all these girls who moan about their @$$hole boyfriends, so who do you think they want for?
And psff do you need to ask about most guys?
Reply 9
i think most women would go get that second boy.. lol.. joking, some women just looks for money.. if uve got money uve got a woman. But i know thats not widely true(no offense)
THE FIRST ONE!! i dont think image matters that much, if you like him thats up to you nobody can stop you! def the 1st one! :smile:
jusfarhan
So you're single and looking.. You have your eyes on two people..


First one is decent looking, you're more happy with their looks and you would look great together as a couple. You get along so well and you can tell this is going to be one hell of a good relationship, it looks as if it'll last long and there is even that chance you might go to the very end (marriage). You're both practically made for eachother. The person doesn't get alot of attention from the opposite sex which you're happy about.. You so don't want the silly arguments.

Second one is better looking than the first one, is more well off etc etc. Yet you don't get along with the person as much as the first one.. Infact, you don't talk much but you think the person is very good looking but do get along, somewhat. And because of that, they do get alot of attention, which does make you feel insecure? You can tell it'll be an average relationship, and doesn't look promising enough to last years and years, but who knows what the future will hold.




Who do you go for? :smile: Which one is second best, and why?

The answer may seem 'obvious', but think to yourselves, how many of you are actually with the 'second one'? Exactly. :smile:


F


i know two people almost exactlly like that, although in my case i get on really well with the better looking one, whereas the other ones a minger with the personality of a brick. yet some how i wound up with the minger and completely missed the boat as far as the other lad was concerned. so now im single again :frown: