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    I have a problem with letting people down haha.....

    My friend asked me to do something for her friend, and I didn't know how to get out of it....

    But it would take up alot of my time. (5 days a week) and money

    I don't know how to say "I don't want to do it" without seeming rude. Help?
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    Just simply say that you don't have the time. People have to understand that you have other commitments, and you're probably worrying over nothing.
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    (Original post by *Dreaming*)
    I have a problem with letting people down haha.....

    My friend asked me to do something for her friend, and I didn't know how to get out of it....

    But it would take up alot of my time. (5 days a week) and money

    I don't know how to say "I don't want to do it" without seeming rude. Help?
    Tell them that then - "I'm sorry, I don't have the time and I'm skint at the moment"
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    (Original post by *Dreaming*)
    I have a problem with letting people down haha.....

    My friend asked me to do something for her friend, and I didn't know how to get out of it....

    But it would take up alot of my time. (5 days a week) and money

    I don't know how to say "I don't want to do it" without seeming rude. Help?
    Try the classic from Pirates of the Carribean 1 Curse of the Black Pearl 2003:rolleyes:

    I'm disinclined to acquiesce to your request. Means "no".

    Good Luck
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    Look her/him in the eye, and say no.
    Simple
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    This isn't something I can afford or have time to do right now, but I'll make it up to you!
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    Hi I was in this dilemma a few weeks ago. I just said 'sorry but i can't afford or do that. Another time.' Hope this helps xx
 
 
 
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