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    My current BF really does not want to break up...we've broken up and got back together too many times. Plus, I'm not entirely in love with him. He really doesn't want me to break up, but began the convo by saying 'lets break up' so i took it seriously, and I think it's the right thing.

    What do u think I should do? Another try or dump?
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    Its kinder to get rid of him.
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    Don't get back with him if you don't like him....simple?
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    Well you must of wanted to break up with him for a reason?
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    Yeah I do want to break up with him, his mood changes too fast...

    This is the convo i'm having currently:

    Me: i took it seriously

    Him: dont take it

    Me: and its serious for me

    Him: forget that thing
    no
    no
    yhu want me to delete that thing
    just forget that i sent yhu any ****
    hey
    please understand
    im speechless nd mouth wide open
    i have nothing to say man
    understand please
    atleast reply

    Me: Sorry
    i can't say anything

    Him: i wont open yhur acccount again
    ill delete every girl

    Me: no dont delete
    i dont want u to delete

    Him: than pllllllleeeeeeeeeeeaaaaaaaaaasss eeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee
    I BEG OF YHU
    FORGIVE ME
    I AM SORRY


    Me: sorry no

    Him: I AM SOORRRYYYYYY

    what else yhu want me to do

    Me: nothing
    dont do anything

    Him: ILL HURT MYSELF IF IT MAKES YHU HAPPY

    Me: NO
    dont
    nothing like that can ever make me happy

    Him: I BEND DOWN ON MY KNEEEESS _ I AM SORRY
    WHAT WILL MAKE YHU HAPPY ?
    I AM SORRY
    I LOVE YOU VERY MUCH
    I WONT MESSAGE YOU AGAIN
    I WONT JOKE WITH YOU
    I WONT TALK WITH UNKNOWN GIRLS :'(
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    What a pussy, tell him to MAN UP.
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    Sounds like a retard.

    Dude needs to get a grip.

    Dump him, it's kinder for both of you.
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    tell him to buy you some new stuff
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    You both sound like you're about 14.

    Just end it, move on from it. You said yourself you don't love him.
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    Stop being such an awkard biatch and man the **** up and make up with him, rather than just being cliched and say ''oooooo i cant get back with you'' cowboy the **** up
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    Sounds like a joke to me, either way, dump.
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    he sounds retarded anyway, dump him.
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    If you definetely want to finish it then its best to finish it now rather than stringing him along, it will hurt him sure but he will get over it in time
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    Break up. You said yourself that you think its the right thing.
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    i know it's hard situation for you but sorry the convo just made me looooooooooooooooooooool
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    My current BF really does not want to break up...we've broken up and got back together too many times. Plus, I'm not entirely in love with him. He really doesn't want me to break up, but began the convo by saying 'lets break up' so i took it seriously, and I think it's the right thing.

    What do u think I should do? Another try or dump?
    If you ain't really in love with him them you should get rid of him, you cannot stay in a relationship if you don't feel anything towards him, it is much better than stringing him along. Plus you are breaking up all the time which can't be fun, at the very least you need to talk to each other about the issues.
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    Eventually he will be fine. He's desperate now, but given time, he'll forgive and forget and see things with clearer eyes
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    What do I do?
    He just messaged me this:
    "NO
    ILL KILL MYSELF IF YHUR SERIOUS I CANT TAKE THIS PAIN :'( "
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Yeah I do want to break up with him, his mood changes too fast...

    This is the convo i'm having currently:

    Me: i took it seriously

    Him: dont take it

    Me: and its serious for me

    Him: forget that thing
    no
    no
    yhu want me to delete that thing
    just forget that i sent yhu any ****
    hey
    please understand
    im speechless nd mouth wide open
    i have nothing to say man
    understand please
    atleast reply

    Me: Sorry
    i can't say anything

    Him: i wont open yhur acccount again
    ill delete every girl

    Me: no dont delete
    i dont want u to delete

    Him: than pllllllleeeeeeeeeeeaaaaaaaaaasss eeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee
    I BEG OF YHU
    FORGIVE ME
    I AM SORRY


    Me: sorry no

    Him: I AM SOORRRYYYYYY

    what else yhu want me to do

    Me: nothing
    dont do anything

    Him: ILL HURT MYSELF IF IT MAKES YHU HAPPY

    Me: NO
    dont
    nothing like that can ever make me happy

    Him: I BEND DOWN ON MY KNEEEESS _ I AM SORRY
    WHAT WILL MAKE YHU HAPPY ?
    I AM SORRY
    I LOVE YOU VERY MUCH
    I WONT MESSAGE YOU AGAIN
    I WONT JOKE WITH YOU
    I WONT TALK WITH UNKNOWN GIRLS :'(

    Wow, you really need to get rid of him.
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    am I the only person who read that and thought 'lolwut?'


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