Basically I've been recently having quite a lot of intense, racy dreams about an ex girlfriend of mine and well I'm embarassed to say, has often led to wet dreams etc.
The fact is though it doesn't make me feel any happier. Perhaps it's to do with the time of year; it was around this time a few years back that she left me and never really gave me reasons why (although hinted at the fact we were different races would mean it wouldn't work). Despite promising me we would still be friends and keep in touch and despite my attempts to contact her, I never did see or hear from her again. For a while it really did bother me to the point I begun seeing a psychiatrist and taking medication which I am still doing. However I hadn't felt like this for a while and I'm worried the effects from the past are going to bother me again.
Am I making a mountain out of a mole hill of this? Is it normal for people to have intense feelings/thoughts about ex-partners long after they've split?
Meh this is why I hate Xmas time.
Having racy dreams about an ex girlfriend. Watch
- Thread Starter
- 22-12-2010 21:04
- 22-12-2010 21:09
I've experienced a similar (I'm a girl and my ex is a guy). I don't know if there's really much you can do, except try your best to put thoughts of her to the back of your mind. Perhaps try new things to keep your mind occupied?
I'm sure you can get over it time, especially when you meet someone new and much better. Good luck
- 22-12-2010 21:13
Your girlfriend was of a different race?
Did you mean to say you were having racist dreams?
Praying for you man.