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    Before I had sex with my boyfriend (and also lost my virginity), we'd known each other for a month and been dating for 2 weeks. Yes, I know some may view it as soon.

    He has lately been saying comments about it, like how "easy" I was and how it didn't take long....and how I have no right to judge people that sleep around and get STDs because of the short time it took for him to get me into bed.

    I know it takes 2 to tango, but lets face it, girls will always get called derogatory names, while guys get a pat on the back.

    Did I put out too soon?
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    He sounds like an admirable boyfriend..... not. Although you are kind of being a hypocrite, do you realise that?
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    (Original post by TravelGuru)
    He sounds like an admirable boyfriend..... not. Although you are kind of being a hypocrite, do you realise that?
    How so.....?
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    Does your boyfriend like it when you stick a finger up his ass?

    What a tool, he called his gf easy? lol wtf
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    I'd be almost inclined to think he only wants sex from you from the way he said it were so easy.
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    He sounds like a right knob, not someone you should be bothering with.
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    Doesn't sound like a real man to me
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    He sounds like an absolute ****.
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    He sounds like a bit of a tool tbh.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    How so.....?
    Well if you're calling other girls 'easy' to get into bed and you were fairly easy to bang then that is being a hypocrite of course.
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    Just start a conversation with him on MSN and be like 'hey yo:

    http://blogs.houstonpress.com/hairballs/dumped_lge.gif'
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    What an arse. I lost my virginity after a month of knowing my ex. I don't care if people think that's too soon, it's not their business and other people's opinions don't matter to me.

    Your boyfriend deserves a good kick in the nuts for judging you!!! How dare he!
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Before I had sex with my boyfriend (and also lost my virginity), we'd known each other for a month and been dating for 2 weeks. Yes, I know some may view it as soon.

    He has lately been saying comments about it, like how "easy" I was and how it didn't take long....and how I have no right to judge people that sleep around and get STDs because of the short time it took for him to get me into bed.

    I know it takes 2 to tango, but lets face it, girls will always get called derogatory names, while guys get a pat on the back.

    Did I put out too soon?
    i wouldn't say he just wanted sex, as somebody else did. it's more of a bragging thing, for me anyway. my past 2 girlfriends only took a month to 'crack', but then again i kept that to myself and didn't go making comments about it. Although i did comment on how i thought they would've wanted to wait a bit longer.
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    Just don't have sex with him. He can't call you easy then After all, you'd be following his advice.

    He sounds like a *****.
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    He's kinda like me, dont get me wrong.
    Although he wanted some vagina, he didnt want it that early, but since you gave it to him he took it.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Before I had sex with my boyfriend (and also lost my virginity), we'd known each other for a month and been dating for 2 weeks. Yes, I know some may view it as soon.

    He has lately been saying comments about it, like how "easy" I was and how it didn't take long....and how I have no right to judge people that sleep around and get STDs because of the short time it took for him to get me into bed.

    I know it takes 2 to tango, but lets face it, girls will always get called derogatory names, while guys get a pat on the back.

    Did I put out too soon?
    He sounds like a complete *******, frankly. Is he really the sort of person you want to be in a relationship with? :lolwut:
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    (Original post by Ilora-Danon)
    What an arse. I lost my virginity after a month of knowing my ex. I don't care if people think that's too soon, it's not their business and other people's opinions don't matter to me.

    Your boyfriend deserves a good kick in the nuts for judging you!!! How dare he!
    you shouldnt be telling a girl to go kick her bf in the nuts, it might end badly :yep:
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    (Original post by TravelGuru)
    Well if you're calling other girls 'easy' to get into bed and you were fairly easy to bang then that is being a hypocrite of course.
    Bit of a difference between 'sleeping around and getting STD's' (which by nature implies unprotected sex with different people) and sleeping with your boyfriend too quick, me thinks
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Before I had sex with my boyfriend (and also lost my virginity), we'd known each other for a month and been dating for 2 weeks. Yes, I know some may view it as soon.

    He has lately been saying comments about it, like how "easy" I was and how it didn't take long....and how I have no right to judge people that sleep around and get STDs because of the short time it took for him to get me into bed.

    I know it takes 2 to tango, but lets face it, girls will always get called derogatory names, while guys get a pat on the back.

    Did I put out too soon?
    Your boyfriend is a nob...he is also 'easy'.
    It wasn't a ONS and you are two consenting adults and you're now together, so why does it matter when you slept together?
    You obviously had a good feeling about him.
 
 
 
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