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    HEY
    Im almost 18, (7 days to go) and i've only ever had one, boyfriend, which was in year 10 and that was for the sake of getting one really.. didnt really LOVE him.
    we broke up after about 2 month, always mates.

    But the real problem is is that.. i hate to say it but...i REEALLY WANT LOVE,
    i havent been kissed since THAT boyfriend, i feel neglected, unloved, craving contact with a guy but...
    i dont like guys my age, all the guys at college are stick thin, with big h
    air, red faces and immature and shallow, (not saying im perfect) but i havent met anyone who i really like.

    I just dont find boys my age attractive, i like MEN real ly. i've fancied teachers more often then guys at my college..i LIKE guys who are 30 or over, i dont know what it is, but the age thing always appealed to me.
    So how does an 18 year old, who wants a relationship with a MAN, do that???
    do i have to wait till im older, because i dont want to do online dating because thats a bit awkward, and dangerous... so pleease hellp

    I just want a man! LOL
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    you need confidence, and maybe asking some friends for clothing/makeup advice (Bear in mind i don't actually know what you look like so the latter might not really apply to you)
    I know tons of girls who are really not that pretty, but with confidence guys gravitate towards them.
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    Just forget about it, and you'll find it when you least expect it!
    That's what happened to me, anyway.
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    You say you want older men? Well there's only one solution, google - local gigolos.
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    Try mixing in different circles and put an effort to meet more like-minded people maybe you will meet somebody you like! Good luck :console:
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    because i dont want to do online dating because thats a bit awkward, and dangerous... so pleease hellp
    It's not dangerous if you're careful. Join a site with a good reputation like match.com and don't rush in to any meetings before getting to know someone. Maybe see them on webcam or talk to them on the phone first just to make sure they are who they say they are. In some ways, I would say it's less awkward as it's easier to talk to people over the internet than it is in real life sometimes.

    If you're still concerned with your personal safety, educate yourself in self-protection. 'The gift of fear' by Gavin De Becker is a good book and it's predominantly aimed at women. You can probably get some free advice on the Suzy Lamplugh website as well, they're a charity that specialise in educating people about personal safety.
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    Man there is not a chance on God's green Earth that someone that acts like you would have a chance at seducing an older man. You have 'teenager' written all over you, don't punch above your weight.
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    Stop looking so hard and just enjoy your life
 
 
 
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