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    Hi, firstly I'm 17 years old and male. I've always got on alright talking to girls and been friends with them but never have I been in a proper relationship or (excluding a peck) kissed. I feel ive had opportunities in the past (unless I misread) to make progress with some girls but not knowing what to do in terms of being intimate has always made me reluctant to make a move.

    The longer this has gone on I feel the more experienced girls I meet will be and I'm terrified of making a fool of myself and not even knowing how to kiss them particularly if we are both sober when we would both me more aware. I've never been intimate or 'touchy-feely' in general and neither have my parents which I feel may relate to me failing to develop in this way. I certainly feel ready to enter a relationship or so on or at least have some experience but this likely embarrasment when I don't know what I'm doing and it isn't enjoyable at all for the girl holds me back.

    Advice would be much appreciated, thanks
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    Don't think about it, just be good friends with them first then you'll feel being intimate will come naturally, as well as kissing. It will just come
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    Lick they face and make slurping noises and go OMNOMNOMNOMNOM
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    move your tongue in a circular motion.
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    man-up
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    It's much the same as how you kiss boys :sexface:


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    Or, on a slightly more serious note, you could always try http://www.videojug.com/film/how-to-kiss-someone-passionately

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    No, but really, it's a natural thing- it just happens. It's pretty hard to be bad at it, unless you're trying too hard. How complicated do people have to make it for crying out loud. I've never really understood people who have to ask this question :o:

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    Sit infront of the washing machine for a day. Find a girl. Stick your tongue in her mouth and repeat what the washing machine does. Easy.
 
 
 
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