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    for the last 2 years ive been girlfriendless, a load of ONS which are easy but had left me with no idea how to get a gf
    ive been at uni since october and now have an image as a manwhore/player and have slept with a few people in my halls block which is all good on paper and stuff but now i want a girlfriend is a real obstacle,
    the girl i like is in my block so knows about pretty much all the girls ive been with at uni which isnt going to help, she doesn't go out clubbing much taking me away from comfort zone of me being tipsy and a lighter enviroment.
    last time she was out me nd her were deffo flirting so im pretty sure she likes me, but when sober i know the whole only after sex view will happen
    then theres the fact how do you atually ask a girl out when sober?! i have never asked a girl out or had to be the chaser (london skats ftw) but shes kinda shy like me so that isnt gunna happen
    or should i just leave it and turn into a wannabe barney stinston
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    for the last 2 years ive been girlfriendless, a load of ONS which are easy but had left me with no idea how to get a gf
    ive been at uni since october and now have an image as a manwhore/player and have slept with a few people in my halls block which is all good on paper and stuff but now i want a girlfriend is a real obstacle,
    the girl i like is in my block so knows about pretty much all the girls ive been with at uni which isnt going to help, she doesn't go out clubbing much taking me away from comfort zone of me being tipsy and a lighter enviroment.
    last time she was out me nd her were deffo flirting so im pretty sure she likes me, but when sober i know the whole only after sex view will happen
    then theres the fact how do you atually ask a girl out when sober?! i have never asked a girl out or had to be the chaser (london skats ftw) but shes kinda shy like me so that isnt gunna happen
    or should i just leave it and turn into a wannabe barney stinston
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    for the last 2 years ive been girlfriendless, a load of ONS which are easy but had left me with no idea how to get a gf
    ive been at uni since october and now have an image as a manwhore/player and have slept with a few people in my halls block which is all good on paper and stuff but now i want a girlfriend is a real obstacle,
    the girl i like is in my block so knows about pretty much all the girls ive been with at uni which isnt going to help, she doesn't go out clubbing much taking me away from comfort zone of me being tipsy and a lighter enviroment.
    last time she was out me nd her were deffo flirting so im pretty sure she likes me, but when sober i know the whole only after sex view will happen
    then theres the fact how do you atually ask a girl out when sober?! i have never asked a girl out or had to be the chaser (london skats ftw) but shes kinda shy like me so that isnt gunna happen
    or should i just leave it and turn into a wannabe barney stinston
    Maybe this should be your starting line.
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    Just ask her out. Ask if she wants to go for coffee sometime. Simple. That way it's not too big a deal if she says no. And if she likes you, then she won't really care about what you have done, as long as you don't do it whilst you guys go out.

    It maybe a stupid line, but there are more fish in the sea.

    Good luck.
 
 
 
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