conversation starters

yes,i am sadly in urgent and desperate need of good conversation starters and er...ways to keep a conversation going.

btw,this conversation is with a guy who likes me.i like him too,but for some reason,we are lost for words :eek:

Reply 1

Tim Street

I started a thread about this if you look on the prev. page lol, Im in exactly the same position!! just tell him he's fit and snog him. things might loosen up!!

Reply 2

yo-less

er...no

i'm actually talking to him over mail so no physical contact,you see

Reply 3

Tim Street

have you ever met him? how can you be lost for words if it's over mail :s people are usually very open online

Reply 4

yo-less

well,i am but he's not evidently :rolleyes:

i'm trying to break the ice here and am in desperate need of help :frown:

Reply 5

lime3k

From the sound of it you don't seem to know of any common interests. Ask him about his, tell him about yours and see if you can find any :smile:

Reply 6

Lirael Abhorsen

how do you know you like him like that if you've never met him ?

Reply 7

SketchyCanvas~

you can like a guy by just chatting to him over the net by getting to know his personality.

Reply 8

yo-less

i have met him :eek:

it's just that we don't meet...er...now.and as i feel that it will be awkward talking over the phone i opted for mailing

Reply 9

Tim Street

I'd give him a ring, try n talk to find common interests...maybe sprinkle a bit of playful dissing in.

Reply 10

yo-less

we're gonna be chatting online today hopefuly :eek:

i need ideas!

Reply 11

Steph!

ask him if he's doing anything for halloween?

Reply 12

galadriel100

'what did you do today?' is a good start.
Tell a joke, ask him some questions, tell him what you've been up to.

Reply 13

Amlea

What music u into?- works for me!!

Reply 14

hallucination

Just ask him what he's been up to and then talk about what you've been doing since the last time you saw him...talk about Christmas and the upcoming holidays...it's only 8 weeks away (or thereabouts!)..