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    I don't know really to start with this so here goes, I was with my ex for 16 months, and we broke up very recently (3 weeks ago) Basically the relationship was unhealthy for about 6 months towards the end but mainly I kept trying as hard as I could to keep it going till I realised I couldn't. He didn't care for me or respected me and he kept putting me into situations where he proved this.

    I really loved him but I do realise that the relationship was going to come to an end sooner or later. Now I'm moving away and after 3 weeks of not speaking at all he called me, made some joke about meeting up with him one last time for you know what, so we did

    The thing is I know he slept with someone as a rebound the night we broke up and I find it really hard to get over this, It's not like im upset because I cant get over the fact we're over, in my mind I can do a lot better than him but I can't get over the fact that he's been so cold hearted and why sleep with me, I mean yeah it's really good together but would/could that be the only reason. He says that after the next time it's gonna be the last time we have contact again ever.

    I'm so confused!!!
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    but it's partly just for the good sex :s
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    Don't meet up with him if you think you're just being used? Only do it if you really want to, and think it will be good for you! (or am I missing the point here?)
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    Why are Women so stupid!?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    but it's partly just for the good sex :s
    Oxymoron: it's either 'partly' or 'just', not both. You sound like you're trying to convince yourself as much as anyone else.
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    Sorry, but I have NO sympathy for you.

    Are you seriously asking this question? Surely you know the answer.

    He's using you, he slept with another girl the night he broke up with you? What is there not to understand about that. Don't let him use you further, why are you letting him call the shots?

    You tell him, he's wrong in thinking he'll ever see you again, he's never seeing or talking to you EVER again.

    I agree with whoever said why are us women soo stupid?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I don't know really to start with this so here goes, I was with my ex for 16 months, and we broke up very recently (3 weeks ago) Basically the relationship was unhealthy for about 6 months towards the end but mainly I kept trying as hard as I could to keep it going till I realised I couldn't. He didn't care for me or respected me and he kept putting me into situations where he proved this.

    I really loved him but I do realise that the relationship was going to come to an end sooner or later. Now I'm moving away and after 3 weeks of not speaking at all he called me, made some joke about meeting up with him one last time for you know what, so we did

    The thing is I know he slept with someone as a rebound the night we broke up and I find it really hard to get over this, It's not like im upset because I cant get over the fact we're over, in my mind I can do a lot better than him but I can't get over the fact that he's been so cold hearted and why sleep with me, I mean yeah it's really good together but would/could that be the only reason. He says that after the next time it's gonna be the last time we have contact again ever.

    I'm so confused!!!
    I'm guessing he was just really really good in bed or you've got daddy issues?
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    I'm guessing he was just really really good in bed or you've got daddy issues?
    Doesn't sound like incest at all, LMAO!!
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    but it's partly just for the good sex :s
    Why are you even contemplating meeting him, he just wants to use you for a cheap shag. Have some bloody balls and stand up to the ******* and tell him to **** off after the way he has treated you as well. You are far better than that but if you go and meet him then you will just make yourself feel far worse.
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    He's using you sweetie, please walk away from him now, he doesn't deserve a last quick f*ck before he dictates if you'll ever have contact again.
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    Bad bad idea, unless you want to come off as easy.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    but it's partly just for the good sex :s
    Sounds like you have successfully made the transition to fb. If that doesn’t suit you then cut off all contact.
 
 
 
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