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    ok so I'm going out with this guy, I really like him but now I'm starting to think that he might be using me.
    Everything was going well, he says he loves me all the time and seems to be really into me. Then, a couple of days ago, I happened to read an old post in which he spoke of timid, weak girls, as those who once in love will spend a lot of money for you and basically give you everything you want in the long run...I know I shouldn't have read the post, but anyways now I can't help thinking that he might be doing this to me.
    I am really weak, emotionally speaking, haven't hade many relationships and those I had left me badly hurt,and I'm really insecure as well. Now what I'm thinking is that many times when we go out he has me paying for the most expensive things (e.g. we go out for dinner at restaurant and I pay, then he pays for a pizza the next day and says we are even).
    It's not about the money really, I wouldn't mind, I'm wondering so everything he told me was a lie and he's just using me? what do you guys think ?

    thanks
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    An old 'post' - huh? Is he on TSR? Just be cautious and don't spend much money when you're together - see if things change between you, i dunno.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    ok so I'm going out with this guy, I really like him but now I'm starting to think that he might be using me.
    Everything was going well, he says he loves me all the time and seems to be really into me. Then, a couple of days ago, I happened to read an old post in which he spoke of timid, weak girls, as those who once in love will spend a lot of money for you and basically give you everything you want in the long run...I know I shouldn't have read the post, but anyways now I can't help thinking that he might be doing this to me.
    I am really weak, emotionally speaking, haven't hade many relationships and those I had left me badly hurt,and I'm really insecure as well. Now what I'm thinking is that many times when we go out he has me paying for the most expensive things (e.g. we go out for dinner at restaurant and I pay, then he pays for a pizza the next day and says we are even).
    It's not about the money really, I wouldn't mind, I'm wondering so everything he told me was a lie and he's just using me? what do you guys think ?

    thanks
    The type of man who could have said this in the past should be approached with caution. Are you silly? why are you paying for the most expensive things, why not do 50/50.

    I say start pretending your skint and see what happens. If he starts acting funny, yep his a gold digger.
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    thanks guys...

    (Original post by PortiaLovesMcqueen)
    Are you silly? why are you paying for the most expensive things, why not do 50/50.
    I know, it's just that I really like and trust the guy, and besides never been in a relationship before, that is why I said 'weak emotionally'...I can't figure it out, how could just someone be so mean, what's the point of hurting someone so...

    anyways, thanks to both..
 
 
 
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