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    can u tell?
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      They have an experience bar above their head. It fills up as they gain more sex and hence, more experience.

      If they seem overly nervous, stumble, hesitate or are unsure, that is probably a good indicator.
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      (Original post by GdotL)
      Yes.
      What gives someone away?
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      Yea... Well, not blatant. But, you can tell the differnece between someone whose had one sexual partner and one whose had 5.
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      (Original post by TheSownRose)
      What gives someone away?
      Well, it's not always you can tell but that's normally when the person is inexperienced in one area but not in others etc.

      It's just lack of confidence, time to work out what's good, lack of good technique, less likely to be forward - of course there are exceptions though, just a majority rule
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      (Original post by spazman21)
      Yea... Well, not blatant. But, you can tell the differnece between someone whose had one sexual partner and one whose had 5.
      I bet you've had lots of sexual encounters with that beast in your sig

      :lolwut:
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      It's usually only obvious if they show it in their confidence - skills wise, someone can be pretty experienced and not be great or they could have little experience and still be pretty good.
      However, if they're nervous, less forward, very fumbly etc then it will be clear.

      (Original post by spazman21)
      Yea... Well, not blatant. But, you can tell the differnece between someone whose had one sexual partner and one whose had 5.
      Well, not really. If I'd one sexual partner but had years and years of sex with them, or had 5 one night stands, the former would come across as far more experienced.
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      (Original post by fidelity_blue)



      Well, not really. If I'd one sexual partner but had years and years of sex with them, or had 5 one night stands, the former would come across as far more experienced.
      If you put it in than extreme, then, yes.

      Have you been with more than one person? People are all very different in bed. If you've slept with different people you'll have experienced more than sleeping with the same person in bed. Chances are that person will be fairly similar all the times you have sex with him/her.
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      My boyfriend said that he wasn't a virgin when we first slept together, however it was pretty obvious that was a lie.
      How could I tell? He didn't know where to put it.
      Absolutely no joke.
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      Sexual confidence can sometimes be a clue...

      The boy I lost my virginity to was also a virgin, and he has never believed that I was telling the truth about losing my virginity to him! He thought I’d lost it to my previous boyfriend and even though I got my ex to promise him that I didn’t, he still wouldn’t believe me. He told me that I was much more confident than him and that because of that, he didn't believe I was telling the truth. He had less self-confidence than me (mentally and physically) whereas I had a lot. But then maybe it was all down to him being an whiney, insecure ***** - whatevz.
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      People can still be nervous if they are with a girl they are generally nervous around anyway.
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      (Original post by Gemma :)!)
      My boyfriend said that he wasn't a virgin when we first slept together, however it was pretty obvious that was a lie.
      How could I tell? He didn't know where to put it.
      Absolutely no joke.
      Think most people had that problem on there first time though... Right?
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      (Original post by APreachyLemming)
      Think most people had that problem on there first time though... Right?
      how is that possible unless hes not ever watched porn...
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      (Original post by Cringe)
      how is that possible unless hes not ever watched porn...
      Erm, not sure... But it's easier then it sounds. :rolleyes:
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      (Original post by APreachyLemming)
      Think most people had that problem on there first time though... Right?
      There's two holes, aim for the pinker one. Works every time (unless your colour blind)
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      My boyfriend said hes only had sex with 1 person before me yet he is the best in bed I've ever had. He is amazing! Extremely suspicious
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      (Original post by moaty...it's gazza)
      There's two holes, aim for the pinker one. Works every time (unless your colour blind)
      LOL at your username.
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        (Original post by Anonymous)
        My boyfriend said hes only had sex with 1 person before me yet he is the best in bed I've ever had. He is amazing! Extremely suspicious
        Have you had sex with many people? People can seem amazing when they're really not.
       
       
       
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