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    Keep anon or delete please because this is pretty personal stuff that i cant talk to close friends about.

    First off, this is honestly not a troll.

    Basically I broke up with my ex a few months ago because I didnt feel i wanted to be with her enoough any more. Now shes got a new boyfriend. Now I wanna ask would this bother you?

    She had sex with this guy 5 days after they started seeing eachother. I didnt think my gf was that type of girl as we were eachothers first time and we waited 6 months before we had sex.
    Secondly, she told me they dont use a condom, which is stupid because hes had a few partners before her.
    Thirdly when we were together I bought her a vibrator, which we used to use together (me on her not her on me lol). She told me the other day that she now uses this vibrator I bought her with her new bf.

    Now I thought i was over her but this has literally torn me apart, just imagining her having sex with someone else is bad enough but obviously the detail has made this horrible. Would you feel the same in my situation even if you ended the relationship? and does this mean i still have feelings for her?
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    I think that your feelings are perfectly normal, and that you probably do have some feelings for her still. which wouldn't be odd either.

    In future though, try to resist the temptation to ask about the intricacies of her sex life (presuming she didn't just *****ily inform you of it).
 
 
 
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